Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Kate Moss Cried for Years after Johnny Depp Break-up – How a Woman Acts During a Relationship Impacts Her Reaction to the Split

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For the November issue of Vanity Fair, Kate Moss opened up about her relationship with Johnny Depp. There’s a reason I’ve decided to blog about a relationship that happened in 1994. See, Kate made a couple of interesting comments which prompted me to think about how a woman interacts with a man during her relationship can impact how handles the breakup.

Kate explained, “Nobody’s ever really been able to take care of me. Johnny did for a bit. I believed what he said. Like if I said, 'What do I do?,' he'd tell me." When they split for good, "that's what I missed," she said. "I really lost that gauge of [having] somebody I could trust. [It was a] nightmare. Years and years of crying. Oh, the tears!"
What stood out to me about Kate said isn’t that she cried for years because she missed anything about Johnny in particular. It sounded more like she was upset because she no longer had his guidance. It’s as if her system of support ended once they did.

This is why it’s of the utmost importance a woman not make a man her life. I’m sure their breakup would’ve been rough no matter what because I believe Kate loved Johnny. Yet, crying for years means this went deeper than the break-up. Kate wasn’t just crying for Johnny. Once on her own, she was terrified.

Suppose Kate had built-up a rock solid group of friends, I doubt the break-up would’ve been as difficult. She wouldn’t have needed to ask his opinion on everything. Johnny wouldn't have been her main “go-to” because others were already looking out for her.

Having a full life outside of a man helps keep mystery alive, too. You want a man to ask what is going on in your life. Playing your cards close to the vest will make him more inclined to give you his best advice. He'll see to it that you're well taken care of once you do lean on him. Because confiding in him is not an everyday thing, he’ll put his best foot forward to demonstrate how reliable he is.

If you have plans with a friend but don’t feel like going because you want to stay hugged up next to him on the couch, tell yourself you have to go for the health of your relationship. A man might whine a bit about not wanting you to leave, but he’ll be the same man who could walk out on you for leaning on him too much. It never hurts to have a life outside of your man. Conversely, it can spell the end of your relationship if you don’t.
Until next time…
Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa

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