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I briefly discussed the little tidbit about how Tom Cruise might have been interested in Cameron Diaz, but
didn’t think much of it. The reason why is because she didn’t seem like
his type. He went from brunettes like Penelope Cruz and Katie Holmes, to Cameron who's a blonde. She's also...well...let’s just say she's much more of a
free-spirit than Tom. I thought maybe the tabloids put a story out there
just one time and that would be that.
But
the gossip isn’t subsiding. Just today, I read an article about how Tom
and Cameron get along very well. He thinks she’s beautiful,
intelligent, and a lot of fun. It’s he who wants to take their
friendship to the next level, but Cameron really only sees him as a
brother and friend. I wonder how long this will last, i.e. Cameron
keeping Tom at bay. My guess is that they’ll go from just being
friends to something more someday.
This made me think about how sometimes a woman will meet a man, start hanging
out with him, and not play hard-to-get because she isn’t interested. Say they become good friends. She spends a lot of time talking
to him on the phone, maybe hangs out with him for hours on end, and confides her inner most secrets. She thinks it’s safe to do all of this
because she doesn’t feel romantically toward him.
This is great, though. Some of the best stories of couples who come together happen when the woman never wanted to give the man the time of day, but he had to have her. The woman might know this, but keeps him at an arms length because she's just not that interested.
This is great, though. Some of the best stories of couples who come together happen when the woman never wanted to give the man the time of day, but he had to have her. The woman might know this, but keeps him at an arms length because she's just not that interested.
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Now
they’re dating. Yet, she's still in the habit of some bad patterns that may
have worked ok while they were friends. Next thing she knows, he’s
not initiating as much and it just doesn’t feel right. The closeness
they shared as friends is somehow different now that they’re
romantically involved. She's worried he’s losing
interest. What can she do?
I
coach women on playing hard-to-get at the outset of meeting a man. This
doesn’t always happen, though. For those who start off as friends and
it turns into something more, it’s best to pull back a tad and be
mysterious if you feel his attention is slipping. Start ending the conversations earlier than you normally do, cut down on the time you spend with him, and no more heart-to-heart talks. You'll probably see that he'll start coming around again.
Of course, the best thing a woman can do for herself is not be too available for any man. It might seem like silly advice to some. The reality, though, is you'll have no regrets if you know you kept your cool from the moment you met. You don't want to risk a man losing interest in you. Some things just aren't worth the gamble.
Until next time...
Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa
Of course, the best thing a woman can do for herself is not be too available for any man. It might seem like silly advice to some. The reality, though, is you'll have no regrets if you know you kept your cool from the moment you met. You don't want to risk a man losing interest in you. Some things just aren't worth the gamble.
Until next time...
Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa
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