My final takeaway is that she didn't expect the man to change. She can't control a man receiving messages on his phone. Elisabetta's also aware she can't bitterly fight with and leave a man because he does. It would be impossible for her to have any functionally healthy relationship were she to.
I used to feel exactly like Elisabetta. I don't anymore because I now know that when a woman plays hard-to-get, she doesn't have to worry about a man's intentions or whether he's cheating. He's already put so much effort into the relationship so there's not much room for doubt.
There was a time once when a boyfriend of mine called me after a night out with his buddies at a bar and proceeded to tell me that a woman hit on him. But, she didn't just make a move and go away. She hung out with them for most of the night. I started wondering, "What else isn't he telling me? Did he get her number? Why is he telling me any of this?" Like Elisabetta, my mind began to whirl.
Some might think that any man dating a jealous woman should just run. Yet, that's not an answer for the many women suffering from uncertainty about whether they're loved. I don't want a man to leave a woman because of her jealousy. If you have a problem with envy, don't be hard on yourself. Just deal with and fix it.
Tell me what you think! How do you handle your jealousy (assuming you have any)?
Until next time...
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