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After reading through a ton of comments, the general consensus is that even though Evelyn Lozada is considered a gold digger and bully that she didn't deserve what happened to her. A bully I can agree with, but I'm hard-pressed to call any woman a gold digger. I believe she loved Chad. Were she truly only in it for the money, Ev wouldn't have thrown a fit about the condom receipt. She would've looked the other way and kept spending. But, she didn't.
Last week, I posted about how Chad accepted the end of his marriage to Ev. What caught my attention the next day, though, was the story about how he filed for divorce after spending the night with his mistress. Here I was giving Chad the
benefit of the doubt that he would go the distance to save his marriage.
I'm not naive and know Ev wouldn't have gone back. However, I would've liked to see him at least try. I hoped for something bigger than a leg tattoo, like checking into a treatment program and leaking it to the press he did it for Ev. But, no.
I'm not naive and know Ev wouldn't have gone back. However, I would've liked to see him at least try. I hoped for something bigger than a leg tattoo, like checking into a treatment program and leaking it to the press he did it for Ev. But, no.
So, who's the mistress? Her name is Bianca Zuluaga and her car was spotted outside of the home he shared
with Ev who, by the way, still has her belongings there. The next morning, Chad missed court because he was at home with Bianca. At some point, she tweeted, @zulubibi: “You know you’re a chocolate addict when you
ate some last night, and eat some as soon as you wake up in the morning.” They later made a trip to IHOP and Bianca had to tweet again, “iHop with my lover… yummm fattening.”
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We all now know how Chad is. I know I shouldn't have been mad about this one. I know that I shouldn't have been disgusted. I know that I shouldn't have expected any more from him than that which he is obviously capable. Yet, I was. How disrespectful can a man be? Chad...you're a true scumbag.
As for Bianca, how could she sleep with a man
knowing his ex-wife's stuff is still in the home? Especially in this scenario after all that's happened with Ev and he? Not only did she go over there, sleep with him, spend the night, and wake up with him the next morning, she tweeted about it! Literally, no shame. Or, maybe she is completely lacking in a sense of healthy self-esteem.
I'd be so creeped out if I went into a man's house and his ex- or deceased wife's personal items were still there. This is clearly a man who has a situation that's not yet finished or is still holding onto. Upon seeing Ev's stuff, Bianca should've said, "So sorry, maybe we should hold off until another time." Obviously, that's not a realistic expectation of mine.
Ev is so smart for not going back to Chad. The fact she isn't homicidal right now makes her a saint. I'm trying to wrap my mind around this were I Ev, thinking, "Was she in my marital bed? Did she touch my clothes? Steal any of my stuff?" Even if Bianca didn't, I couldn't keep myself from wondering about it.
I hope, hope, hope Ev doesn't backpedal and end up with him again someday. The moral of the story is that once you know it's bad with a man, get out, stay out, kick him out...whatever. Trust your instincts. As time passes, like Ev, you'll see what he's really made of. Trust you're making the best decision.
I hope, hope, hope Ev doesn't backpedal and end up with him again someday. The moral of the story is that once you know it's bad with a man, get out, stay out, kick him out...whatever. Trust your instincts. As time passes, like Ev, you'll see what he's really made of. Trust you're making the best decision.
Until next time...
Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa
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