Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Victoria Beckham Is Calm in the Storm over David’s Rumored Affair – Why Being Steady Will Take You Far in a Relationship

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For those who haven't heard, David Beckham was accused of having an affair with Welsh opera singer Katherine Jenkins. Because of the rumors that were swirling, Katherine took to her Twitter account and denied any involvement with David. She said they only met twice but never arranged to secretly meet.

Katherine’s critics say she didn’t need to address the story in the first place. The consensus is that Katherine took advantage of being tied with David to drive her PR attention. I think it all depends on how you look at it. Maybe it could also be said that she kept the rumors from gaining serious momentum.

Throughout the storm, David’s wife, Victoria, remains calm. According to an article that came out today, the whole scandal has her “bemused.” Having been married to David for 13 years now it seems nothing rattles her. Even back in 2004 when David denied having an affair with his former PA Rebecca Loos, he said, “I don't flirt with other women. I exist only for Victoria .” So sweet!

The reason why I wanted to bring this story to my reader’s attention is because Victoria ’s a role model of sorts as it pertains to being secure in her marriage. Most women would be on edge wondering about the rumors. Not Victoria. It seems like she’s able to find the humor in all of it.

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As a dating coach I’ve had clients ask how to land a man with money or really good looks. I remind them that a highly desired man also attracts many women. I don’t try talking them out of what they want. But, it's important that if they’re the jealous type they work on keeping it in check.

To say David’s a sought after man is an understatement. Even in the Burger King commercial he recently did, his good looks were put on spotlight -- literally! Both men and women dreamily responded to his mesmerizing smile.

Not only does Victoria accept this, she doesn’t even seem possessive or territorial. Seemingly she has this whole game down pat. She doesn't succumb to the petty, goes about taking care of her family, and minds her own business. She never discusses it and I venture to guess she’d die of embarrassment before addressing rumors on Twitter.

Don’t misinterpret what I’m saying. If you really think or know a man’s cheating, then don't stick around. Staying with someone who cheats is damaging to your self-esteem and occupies a lot of precious mental space. You can't have your head in the sand about these things and must take care of yourself.

To remain an It Girl in your boyfriend or husband's eyes, do your best to present yourself as a woman who is secure and grounded. He’ll also greatly appreciate the benefit of the doubt and your trust when problems arise. Staying steady will make a man feel for you the same way David feels for Victoria: He will only exist for you.

Tell me what you think! Is Victoria as secure with David as she seems?

Until next time…

Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa

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