Thursday, August 30, 2012

LeAnn Rimes Checks Into Rehab – Did She Win Eddie Cibrian at the Cost of Her Sanity?

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We all heard the news today about how Leann Rimes went into a treatment facility to handle stress and anxiety. People are asking what could’ve possibly stressed her given she always tweets photos of herself in a bikini on a beach. It's not all happiness for her, though. She’s attacked daily on Twitter, called a homewrecker, and has a lot of people who really don’t like her.

What sounds like the straw that broke the camel’s back, though, is that she worried husband, Eddie Cibrian, was cheating on her. According to the report, she called a friend a few weeks ago crying because he went out. Supposedly, she stayed at home for the weekend, but he didn’t.

Comments from other readers included, “Serves her right.” “Karma – what goes around comes around.” “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” It made me think about women who try and/or do have a relationship with a man who cheated on his girlfriend or wife with her. Never mind that LeAnn was married, too when she cheated; I'm not addressing that here because Eddie’s not the one having a breakdown.

Whenever a woman becomes involved with a man who’s with another woman, she runs the risk of falling in love with him. It goes from being a physical affair to “Would he leave her for me? We’d be so perfect together!” The fantasies start building and maybe – just maybe – she’ll be one of the rare circumstances where the man leaves his significant other for her.

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It seems, though, that the happiness is always accompanied with doubt. Even if he swears up and down he would never cheat on you, there’s a little voice in your head that says, “what if?” True, this can happen even if a man doesn’t have a record of cheating. But, when he for sure does, it’s harder to rid yourself of that uncertainty.

We have no idea yet whether there’s any truth to Eddie cheating on LeAnn or if her mind played tricks on her. I wonder, though, if she’d do it all the same way again. Is it possible to love a man so much that you’d put yourself through such emotional turmoil and worry that he’d cheat on you?

Even though LeAnn got Eddie, it doesn’t seem like much of a prize. They married in 2011 and a year later she checks into rehab. Though I hope they do, I don’t see them making it “til death do us part.” I'm not sure if she has the mental and emotional stamina to deal with the fallout she's still receiving.

Granted LeAnn forces herself on the public with endless photos of herself in a bikini, arguing with people on Twitter, and just generally not flying under the radar. No one can forget what happened because she's always in everyone's face. Even if she didn’t do these things, I think she’d still be where she is.

I’m not casting stones at LeAnn. The probability of her fully trusting Eddie seems unlikely. In a way, she’s in a hell she brought upon herself which makes it even more difficult with which to cope. It seems she gained Eddie at the cost of her sanity.

Tell me what you think! Can LeAnn ever stop worrying about fears of Eddie’s cheating?

Until next time…

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Vanessa

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