Monday, August 6, 2012

Jenny McCarthy Moves to Chicago for Her Son – Does Her Boyfriend Believe Her?

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Mid last month, I mentioned in my Celeb Romance Roundup that I read a blurb about how Jenny McCarthy is so in love with Chicago Bears linebacker Brian Urlacher that she was talking about moving from Los Angeles to Chicago for him. When I first read it I thought, “I bet it's true. She’s not exactly known for being hard-to-get with men. I hope she doesn’t move.”

Turns out my suspicion was confirmed. During a recent Playboy appearance, Jenny said she’s now calling Chicago home again. She’ll film her shows in L.A. , will fly back and forth, and tailgate at all Bears home games. A source close to her said the move had nothing to do with Brian, though. She wants her son, Evan, with family and to have a normal life.

I don’t think anyone believes that her relationship with Brian wasn't a factor in her decision. Sure, an added benefit of moving home is that Evan will be around family and have a normal life. But, Brian can’t leave Chicago because he plays for the Bears whereas Jenny’s schedule has more flexibility. Because it does, she’s basically turning herself inside out to keep the relationship going.

Worst of all is the impression this gives Brian. He might be polite enough to not call her out on what he suspects is the real reason behind her move, i.e. him. But, he’s used to women chasing him and knows a woman pursuing him when he sees one. Jenny lost any hand she would’ve had making such a big change.

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Whenever you start dating a man, don’t make drastic moves that show him how serious you are about your relationship with him. This will most likely scare him and he'll lose interest.  He'll be even more concerned when he sees your willingness to uproot your child/ren in order to make a relationship work. This is especially true if he hasn’t proposed.

People also see through Jenny’s transparent reasons given she’ll be tailgating at every Bears home game. It’s a big “no no” that a woman attend a man’s games and give an outpouring of so much support. She’ll find out the hard way that he didn’t really want her at all of his games. His teammates will automatically blame a poor performance on her attendance. For some reason, though, they don’t do this when a woman is the man’s wife. No idea why. It just is.

Oh, and of course she’ll be at the games. No one hauls themselves to a tailgating party and then doesn’t go to the game – unless they don’t have tickets. Given Jenny’s dating Brian, I imagine getting tickets is not a problem for her.

Great, Jenny. Move your entire life and be so available to Brian that you’re already committing to every Bears game. If Brian starts avoiding you because it’s too much too soon, don’t go on Howard Stern and tell the world that the men you date are depressed and turn their backs on Evan and you. No one will buy it. Best of luck on this one. You’re going to need it.

What advice would you give Jenny? Do you think her relationship with Brian will work out considering her big move?

Until next time…

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Vanessa

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