Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Jennie Garth Would Rather Lick a Dirty Floor Than Date -- Why a Positive Attitude When Dating Is Imperative!

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Sounds like Jennie Garth is moving on after her divorce from Peter Facnielli! On one hand, at least she’s open to getting out there. Now that she's out there, though, it wouldn’t hurt for her to sound a tad more positive about dating.

In an interview with Fox and Friends yesterday, Jennie discussed how her life has changed now that she’s a single lady. She said, "I'd rather lick a dirty floor than go back to dating. Dating is very new for me. I have training wheels on right now because I was married [for so long]. That's my whole adult life, basically. I think I'm actually going back into adult adolescence. I'm having a moment. Men come into it knowing who I am or my history. I know nothing about them, so I have a weird disadvantage."

So, a couple of thoughts on what she said. I agree with Jennie that sometimes dating is no fun. In fact, it can be downright awful because you feel like you’re pounding the pavement with no Mr. Handsome in sight. But, staying positive is imperative. 

If Jennie feels comfortable enough to tell Fox and Friends that she’d rather lick a dirty floor than go back to dating, I say there's a high probability she's admitting this much while on her dates. She shouldn’t do this. A man doesn't want to hear the negativity -- for no other reason than he doesn’t want an image of her licking a dirty floor. It’ll make it hard for him to want to give her a good night kiss!

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A woman wants a man to see her as his future girlfriend or wife. Thus, she shouldn't be a negative Nancy. She need not be a Pollyanna, but our mother’s say if you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say it. The same applies to the woman who must put her best foot forward on a date.

Jennie’s other concern regarding how men know all about her before she even dates them is understandable. However, this is a good reason for her to stop talking to the press about her divorce and dating woes. Given she feels disadvantaged that men know more about her than vice versa, it stands to reason that were she to stop being so open, they would know less about her.

When it comes to dating, attitude is everything. If there's something you don't like, do your best to change your thinking or circumstances. You want to best position yourself for the long haul. Don't let negative thinking defeat your chances of finding a man who makes you happy.

What advice would you give Jennie? Are there any divorced women who can share their tips on how they re-entered the dating game?

Until next time...

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Vanessa
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