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Not
sure about the rest of you, but, as a dating coach, I think this is
incredibly positive advice! If they say life is what you make it and
attitude is everything, then Lauren’s highlighting the upside of moving
on after a break-up and teaching people to look forward to finding love
again. In light of how bitter people can become, I think what she said
is very, very sweet.
How
many times have both men and women attended events centered around a
relationship and felt forlorn and lonely if they’re single? Having those emotions is understandable because you want the love you see others
are sharing. The hope, though, is that it inspires you to want it so
badly for yourself that you hit the next singles event, post a profile
online, and get moving on finding your significant other. If you want
love, then go get it.
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I don't understand. How often have we turned to a friend
for advice? Maybe the friend isn't a therapist but possesses opinions which we
respect. Do we snip at our friend and ask, “What do you really do? Why
should I listen to you?” If you’re a nut, maybe. Otherwise, no. Why do this to Lauren? Why throw shade on someone trying to spread
positivity?
I
don’t care who gives me good advice. I’ll find wisdom in the words of a
homeless person. What matters is whether there’s a lesson or another
tangible take-away which Lauren definitely provided. In
response to the question, “Why should we care?” Well, “we” don’t have
to. But, it doesn’t mean that Lauren’s advice isn’t good.
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As
an author, I can’t count the ways I wasn’t offended – and not just
because my book’s only available in e-Book format either. If I own a
book, I will do what I darn well please with it. In fact, I just
recently put a book I finished reading on the floor for my bunnies to
chew on for a few minutes.
A friend came up with a name for cyber bullies and internet trolls: e-Thugs. For all of the critical e-Thugs, I really hope you're making a positive contribution in some way to balance the negativity you put out there. If someone like Lauren’s positivity is so
upsetting, so disconcerting, so traumatic, so appalling, maybe you
shouldn’t be on the internet until you’re more emotionally equipped.
Tell me what you think! What are your thoughts on Lauren’s advice?
Until next time…
Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa
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