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Ever
since yesterday’s announcement about Vera Wang's split with
husband, Arthur Becker, of 22 years, I’ve been searching around to see what
led up to it. A report came out they fought a lot right before it ended. People are
speculating that her success is a contributing
factor given she was wealthier than he.
I
can believe disagreements occurred between them. That’s pretty typical of a
couple about to divorce. What caught my attention, though, was that the
article said they would “berate” each other in front of other people
even though it made them uncomfortable.
Most
couples don’t like being known for quarrelling and try not to not do so in front of others. Sometimes, though, they find it’s
unavoidable. I still say to do your best because no one wins when a
couple fights. Especially not the poor friends who must endure listening
to the people at each others throats.
The
biggest reason not to fight in front of others is for the
sake of your relationship. It’s disrespectful to your partner and not Rules. The mean comments might be ratcheted up a
notch because one person won't want to be outdone on the insult hurling. Hence, a fight becomes worse than it need be because verbal
warfare has started.
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Another
incentive is because you don’t want others to talk about your
relationship. I firmly believe in presenting a united front and not
airing dirty laundry. If you both simply can’t resist fighting, then
don’t make plans with your friends.
Additionally,
it’s unfair to address your problems in front of outsider. People won’t
know what to say or might feel obligated to take sides. They might also
make judgments about the fight without knowing the whole story.
The
end result of fighting in front of friends is that you’ll no longer receive
invitations. People will not want to invite one person from a couple and
not the other. Instead of choosing, neither will be invited. Being
persona non grata for future events is not something you want.
Tell me what you think! How do you feel when another couple's quarreling?
Until next time…
Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa
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