The Bachelor contestant, Renay Louise, met up with JLS' Aston Merrygold. This happened several times and once he even snubbed her. One night when they were out separately, he texted her that he was horny. She went to his house in Hertfordshire where she found him in bed drunk. She poured more liquor for them, stripped down to her underwear, and had sex with him shortly thereafter.
And then nothing. Renay admitted that she genuinely liked Aston, but the feelings weren't mutual. She suggested meeting up, but it never happened. Renay said, "[Aston] never once made it clear that he didn’t have time for a girlfriend, so I was expecting a relationship to develop." Even though she's seen pictures of him with other women since their night, she said that she'd still meet up with him if he wanted.
And then nothing. Renay admitted that she genuinely liked Aston, but the feelings weren't mutual. She suggested meeting up, but it never happened. Renay said, "[Aston] never once made it clear that he didn’t have time for a girlfriend, so I was expecting a relationship to develop." Even though she's seen pictures of him with other women since their night, she said that she'd still meet up with him if he wanted.
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There are women who can't tell when a man just isn't interested. Renay's first sign came when Aston never asked her for a date. He gave her no indication that he wanted to spend time alone with her, get to know her, romance her, or win her over. Because she missed the first sign, she fell prey to later signs and continued meeting him out until he blew her off. The rest is history.
Women frequently ask me, "If he's not interested, why is he contacting me?" My response is "he might sorta, kinda, may be interested in you, but doesn't have to have you." Once you look at the signs from the beginning, you won't find yourself waiting for a phone call that never comes following a one-night stand. You'll also be less likely to sleep with a man who hasn't worked his tail off to have you.
Tell me what you think! Have your friends missed obvious signs a man isn't interested?
Until next time...
Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa
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