Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Joshua Jackson and Diane Kruger Have Miserable First Date – Why A Man Could Be Worth a Second Date!

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Almost all women have had this happen to them. They go out on a first date with a man who’s cute, but there’s just something about him that doesn’t go over so well. Maybe he’s a bit clumsy, doesn’t have the best manners, or talks about himself too much. Should you go out on another date with him?

Well, this happened to Diane Kruger and she did. Her boyfriend, Joshua Jackson, described their first date as miserable. At the restaurant where they dined, there was a flower in bloom that Diane was allergic to. She sniffed and sneezed the whole time (wonder why they didn’t move tables or  remove the flower?). Josh was so nervous that he “chewed her ear off for about an hour and a half.” He was in disbelief that she called back.

They’ve been together since. I know they aren’t married, but didn’t want to focus on whether the relationship is Rules for this post. I have a different point that I’d like to make.

I think it’s fine when a woman’s picky. There’s no reason to settle. In the end, she’ll be frustrated and miserable with an equally unhappy partner. Yet, even if a man doesn’t seem ideal, keep an open mind. He might be trying hard to impress you and won’t realize he’s making offensive dating blunders.

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Either way you look at it, it’s to your benefit that you go on just one more date. If you like him, great! You can chalk up the initial awkward outing to first date jitters. In the even you can’t stand him, then at least you won’t regret the “not knowing” part of whether you should’ve given him a second chance. Congratulate yourself on seeing it through.

Now, there will be dates where you're certain you don't like him. Maybe his online dating pictures don’t even remotely resemble what he looks like in person. Or, maybe he does something you can’t stand and you want to get away from him. Don’t go on a second date in these cases – even if he’s ridiculously wealthy. If you for sure don’t like a man, don’t waste his time or yours. That’s just bad karma.

Tell me what you think! Have you ever gone on a second date and been pleasantly surprised to find out you liked him?

Until next time…

Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa


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