Friday, July 20, 2012

Is Anne Vyalitsina Ready to Get Serious with Alexander Skarsgard? Why the Honeymoon Phase Shouldn’t be Rushed!

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For women who do The Rules, one of their favorite parts is how long the honeymoon phase of the relationship lasts. You can always feel it when it's moved too fast with a man. One weekend he’s asking you for a date and then the next you’re watching movies on his couch like you’re married.

When you do The Rules, though, this doesn’t happen. The honeymoon phase can last for months and even longer given he’s always looking for ways to spend time with you. Seeing you never gets old because you put enough space between dates to make him miss you.

What made me think of the honeymoon phase today is an article about how Anne Vyalitsina has been seeing Alexander Skarsgard since June. A source said she’s in that “is he going to call?” part of their relationship (love that part!). However, Anne’s ready for it to become serious.

It might be tempting to move fast with a man. Especially if he's asking to see you everyday, texting like crazy, calling, and basically seems obsessed with you. But, it’s up to you to temper the relationship. You must tell him "no" as needed. Otherwise, he’ll go from obsessed to bored before your eyes. It’s excruciating to watch and you can’t undo any mistakes.

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You only have one chance at the honeymoon phase. People like to think they can “start over” in a relationship and work with a clean slate. Not so. The past can’t be undone. Hence, don’t move like lighting through what’s often a memorable time in a relationship.

If this story is true, Anne should enjoy the honeymoon phase and not push for anything serious. Any discussions about the relationship moving forward should come from Alexander and not her. Besides, the last "gentleman" she dated didn’t propose after two years. She’s pretty Rules and I'd like to see her land the man she must have instead of letting history repeating itself.

Take the poll or tell me what you think! Should Anne V cool her jets with Alexander?

Until next time...

Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa


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