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I
wanted to share my thoughts concerning Jenny McCarthy and how she recently posed Playboy. On one hand, she said that
she did it because the tuition for her autistic son is expensive. While
school is indeed pricey, it’s exceptionally hard to believe she didn’t
also pose nude for personal validation.
What
makes me say this? Well, she was on Howard Stern talking about how
great she is at beejs. Jenny went on to say that she studies sex so that
it can be better. I’m sure her boyfriend, Brian Urlacher, is thrilled
with her commitment to continuing sex ed. But, why do we need to know
about it?
Then,
the story dropped about how she accidentally sent a nude picture to her dentist.
Even though I’d never have pictures of myself in the buff on my phone
(or anywhere else) I wouldn’t publicly divulge my error. Oh, and she let us know that she grew out her...down there for Playboy. Jenny, thanks for telling us. We never could've told from the Playboy spread.
Anyway, last weekend, Perez Hilton posted modest views of the Playboy spread with her private parts whited-over. What made me roll my eyes were the comments that men (presumably) left. I don’t want to reprint them, but click the above link if you want to check them out. Needless to say, they weren’t commenting on her class. It was what they wanted to do to her sexually.
Anyway, last weekend, Perez Hilton posted modest views of the Playboy spread with her private parts whited-over. What made me roll my eyes were the comments that men (presumably) left. I don’t want to reprint them, but click the above link if you want to check them out. Needless to say, they weren’t commenting on her class. It was what they wanted to do to her sexually.
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People
tried persuading Jenny to not pose for Playboy because of her son. Obviously, this didn't work. Her response was that he could
find much worse on the internet. But, what struck me as I read those
comments is not only does Jenny not care what her son thinks about this, she doesn’t even care about what people say about her.
Worse, Playboy’s request that she pose nude (resulting in lewd sexual
comments from men) influences her self-esteem for the better!
This
brought me to my ultimate question – what will she do for self-esteem
ten years from now? Fifteen years from now? Twenty? When the magazines
no longer call and her body isn’t what it is now?
It’s
not bad that she wants men to find her sexy. What’s disconcerting is
it’s apparent they don’t respect her. She might fire back at me and say
“Why would I care about what a bunch of people think of me who I don’t
know?” My response to this would be, “Why wouldn’t you?”
Most
of us hope to leave a respectable legacy. The fact that she doesn’t
care about this makes me wonder what’s up with her. It’s not even like
she can say, “I was young and didn’t know better.”
Jenny’s
not alone in this. Plenty of women use men’s opinions of their sexiness
as a personal measure of their desirability. My question to Jenny and
other women is at what point do you accept responsibility for the health
of your self-esteem? One day, men won’t chase you like they do now. If
you don’t like what you see in the mirror, you’ll have a hard-time being
alone with, well, you.
Tell me what you think! Was Jenny trying to hard for validation when she posed for Playboy?
Until next time…
Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa
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