Kelsey Grammer's Wife Feeling Depressed and Isolated -- Why a Man Isn't Your Social Director!

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I was doing my usual cruising of the tabloids today when an article about Kelsey Grammer, 57, caught my eye. Generally, the only thing I’ve ever found interesting about Kelsey is his ex-wife Camille. Even this time, it wasn’t really Kelsey as much as it was the story about his wife that grabbed my attention.

Kelsey’s pregnant wife Kayte Walsh, 32, is reportedly pretty unhappy these days. She’s in Chicago with him where Kelsey’s filming his television series. However, Kayte spends most of her days alone. Her family and friends are back in England. Even the baby shower she just had was primarily attended by Kelsey’s crowd.

Being lonely is depressing. I knew no one when I first moved from Chicago to Los Angeles. I had no family, boyfriend, friends, or job when I settled in. My solution for overcoming the loneliness was obvious: I got busy!

I started going out with lots of different people and said ‘yes’ to every invite I received. Being with unfamiliar people in an equally unfamiliar place was definitely awkward. But, I kept going until it eventually felt like home. Everyone out here was so nice and anxious to show the newbie around town. I was happy to let them.

Of course, I missed my family and friends. The truth was, though, that any loneliness was my doing. I decided to leave Chicago. No one forced Los Angeles upon me. I knew what I was up against when deciding to fly solo on the other side of the country. If I was lonely, I had no one to blame but myself.

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And the same is true with Kayte. It was her choice to marry Kelsey and follow him to Chicago. I know she’s pregnant, but so are lots of women. They nevertheless find a way to socialize and be happy. Plenty of women move in order to be with their husbands and still busy themselves with other pursuits.

This is why The Rules emphasizes the importance of maintaining your own life outside of your boyfriend or husband. Women always say they know this and have even told me the advice is so obvious. If so, then why do many women still find themselves in situations like Kayte? They might lead very full lives prior to meeting a new man but allow their interests to taper off until they aren’t left with much.

Then comes the depression. She ceases being the happy-go-lucky woman he fell in love with and stops taking care of herself like she used to. The man feels helpless and compelled to act like her social director when he isn’t.

Kayte should buck-up. Hopefully, she isn’t feeling sorry for herself and complaining about her loneliness to Kelsey. There isn’t much he can do about it given he’s busy working.

If Kayte isn’t inclined to meet and greet, she can do volunteer work. I find it hard to believe that in a city as big as Chicago she’d be lonely and isolated without something to do that would involve her meeting new people. There’s lots of opportunity out there.

Take the poll or tell me what you think! Do you think Kayte should buck-up?

Until next time…

Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa

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