Kelsey’s pregnant wife Kayte Walsh, 32, is reportedly pretty unhappy these days. She’s in
Being lonely is depressing. I knew no one when I first moved from
I started going out with lots of different people and said ‘yes’ to every invite I received. Being with unfamiliar people in an equally unfamiliar place was definitely awkward. But, I kept going until it eventually felt like home. Everyone out here was so nice and anxious to show the newbie around town. I was happy to let them.
Of course, I missed my family and friends. The truth was, though, that any loneliness was my doing. I decided to leave Chicago. No one forced Los Angeles upon me. I knew what I was up against when deciding to fly solo on the other side of the country. If I was lonely, I had no one to blame but myself.
This is why The Rules emphasizes the importance of maintaining your own life outside of your boyfriend or husband. Women always say they know this and have even told me the advice is so obvious. If so, then why do many women still find themselves in situations like Kayte? They might lead very full lives prior to meeting a new man but allow their interests to taper off until they aren’t left with much.
Then comes the depression. She ceases being the happy-go-lucky woman he fell in love with and stops taking care of herself like she used to. The man feels helpless and compelled to act like her social director when he isn’t.
Kayte should buck-up. Hopefully, she isn’t feeling sorry for herself and complaining about her loneliness to Kelsey. There isn’t much he can do about it given he’s busy working.
If Kayte isn’t inclined to meet and greet, she can do volunteer work. I find it hard to believe that in a city as big as
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