Thursday, January 29, 2015

Demi Lovato Posts to Social Media about Wilmer Valderrama -- Is She Setting Herself Up for a Set Back?

Demi Lovato, Wilmer Valderrama
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I have to say that I'm happy Demi Lovato has turned her life around as much as she has. What's even better is that she's kept it consistent, hasn't relapsed, and addresses issues as they come up. But if I could change one thing, it would be how she handles her relationship with Wilmer Valderrama.

DailyMailUK.com reported "Demi Lovato, 22, spent some quality time with her two favourite boys on Wednesday evening – and later documented their low-key evening with an intimate snap. Demi posted a shot in which she is seen relaxing with boyfriend Wilmer Valderrama and adorable pup Buddy during a quiet night in.

With Wilmer’s head in her lap and Buddy sleeping by her side, Demi looks content while holding her phone aloft for the self-taken snap, which she captioned: ‘My boys are really sleepy… And I’m the luckiest woman in the world…’

Previously quiet about her relationship with Wilmer, that changed on November 17 when the singer declared her love for him. The star, who was on tour and obviously lonely, posted a cute Instagram snap of her beau kissing her cheek, with the caption: 'I never post personal pictures like this but f***.. He is perfect. I miss my @wilmervalderrama.'

In December the singer and actress shared a shot of them boarding a plane with the message: 'Christmas Eve headed to Dallas with my little family,' In the black-and-white snap, the two are canoodling in front of a private plane, as Demi is cradling her little white pooch. The adorable dog was an early Christmas gift, which Demi announced on Instagram two weeks ago by gushing, 'Guys....... SANTA CAME EARLY THIS YEAR...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!' along with a snap of her eyeing her new pet."

Notice anything about this story? I did. I noticed that it's always Demi talking about Wilmer and using social media to express her love.

Now, I understand that it's not as if she's doing this everyday. But she's done it a lot more than Wilmer has. Where is his outpouring of affection for her?

Because Wilmer does not show his affection to the degree that Demi does, I'd like to see her follow his lead. In other words, if he's not singing from the hilltops, neither should she.

A woman who does more than a man in a relationship leaves herself open to resentment. This is simply because his lack of reciprocity is identified as him not being in love with her as she with him.

And...well...this assessment is correct.

Hopefully Demi doesn't end up hurt. I'd hate to think of her setting herself up for a set back. Especially a set back that happens because of a man.

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Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Selena Gomez Moves on from Justin Bieber with Zedd -- Why This Proves Anyone Can Get over an Ex!Selena Gomez

Selena Gomez, Zedd
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I never thought that I'd see the day she'd move on from Justin Bieber, but Selena Gomez looks as if she's clearly moved on!

HollywoodLife.com reported, "Selena’s heart wants what it wants, and that’s new man Zedd! Selena is lighting up like never before in a new PDA pic with Zedd, who visited her while she’s on set in Atlanta. While Selena, 22, is busy filming The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving, she made time for her hot new flame Zedd, 25, who flew to Atlanta just for her! If that doesn’t seem romantic enough, these two have been spending every minute together and have enough pics to prove just how adorable their relationship is.

Selena and the “Clarity” hit-maker are enjoying their fun and flirty relationship, and can’t seem to get enough of each other! They’ve done tons of couple-y things, and even went on a double date with Zac Efron and Sami Miro in Atlanta! They’ve also made time for themselves.

Selena unofficially confirmed that her and Zedd were an item in another very PDA-filled pic of them in Atlanta, which she posted on Instagram on Jan. 24. In the pic, Zedd’s arms are wrapped tightly around Selena’s waist, as Selena places a hand over his. They once again look so happy to be together! But the most jaw-dropping part of the photo was Selena’s caption, which read, “Hint #2 #iwantyoutoknow.”


I've always liked Selena and hoped that she'd be out from under Justin's spell. I'm thrilled that it's happened because I worried she'd end up in a bad place because of him.

What I like about Zedd is that he went to visit her on set in Atlanta. With most of these stories, you hear about how the woman is flying all over so she can spend time with a man. 

This is a mistake. Even if there's distance between a man and you, he should be doing a lot more traveling to you than you to him. If you make it too easy, he won't appreciate you.

As for how Selena's handling her romance with Zedd, she shouldn't have posted a picture on Instagram announcing that they were dating. She could also dial back how much time she's spending with him.

Just because it's new doesn't mean that Zedd won't become very bored. Selena could do well with some mystery right now.

The worst thing that could happen is that Selena lets this one move too fast, too soon. If she doesn't slow it down, she'll find herself repeating her past.

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Monday, January 26, 2015

Olivia Munn Talks Aaron Rodgers -- Again! Why She Needs to Hush!

Olivia Munn, Aaron Rodgers
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Olivia Munn, 34, might be a tad too enthusiastic about her romance with Green Bay Packers quarterback, Aaron Rodgers.

UsMagazine.com reported "Olivia revealed to Seth Meyers that she is incredibly supportive of Aaron joining him at Lambeau Field for every Green Bay Packers home game.

She went on to explain to Meyers how often she frequents games to watch the Super Bowl champ in action. "Every home game, I am there," she revealed. "When there's an away game, that's when I leave to do my work."

When Munn is present in Green Bay, Wisconsin, she's a riot. "I think I'm a good fan," the Newsroom star mused to Meyers. "I'm there and I'm screaming a lot. I think it's really important to scream.

Another game day revelation Olivia recently made last month was that Rodgers, 31, and she do not have sex on game day mornings. "No we don't. Not on game day," she said on Watch What Happens Live in December. "There's not a rule, but it just doesn't happen because there's other things to focus on."

Sometimes, however, they will sneak in a session after a win. "Depends on how late the game is," Munn joked to Andy Cohen. "Usually I try to have sex as much as I can."

Wow! She is doing lots and lots of talking about her romance with Aaron.

Since when it is anyone's business about whether Aaron and she have sex on game day? Or after the game? And airily saying "I try to have sex as much as I can" makes her sound easy and trashy.

Olivia Munn
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Olivia also need not go to every home game that Aaron plays. It's nice she's supportive, but she's not his wife. At most, she should go to one or two a season and only if Aaron is really insistent that she attend.

It's great that she does her own thing during his away games and isn't following Aaron around like a groupie. But even going to every home game is a bit much. She should be way too busy with her career to have time for that.

Olivia should also follow Aaron's lead. He's not talking about their sex life in interviews. He speaks about their relationship in vague terms. If Aaron keeps talk about their sex life private, why can't she?

Another issue is that fans really don't like it when their favorite quarterback is off dating a Hollywood actress. If he plays poorly, they blame it on her. 

I'm not saying this makes sense or that the fans are right. But fans are superstitious and Aaron will be on their bad side. Of all of the NFL teams, you do not mess with Packer fans. 

Olivia should do her best to make sure they don't hate her. She might think that she's supporting him. The reality is that the fans will think she's a distraction. 

Going on shows and talking like this about Aaron tells me she doesn't understand fans or that she just doesn't care. Either way, it's not a good look for her.

The best thing that Olivia can do is stay off the radar until Aaron proposes. Then she can resurface as his future wife.

No matter what, though, she should keep her mouth shut and emulate some of the other classier girlfriends and wives in the league.

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Thursday, January 22, 2015

Cristiano Ronaldo and Irina Shayk Split -- And Wow How Quickly He's Moved On!

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It's unfortunate that this one took so long to end (she wasted a lot of time), but at least it's now over. 

DailyMailUK.com reported, "Portugese footaller Cristiano Ronaldo said, "After dating for five years, my relationship with Irina Shayk has come to an end. We believed it would be best for both of us to take this step now. I wish Irina the greatest happiness.'

Cristiano has already moved on from his recent split from Irina: he is now thought to be dating Spanish news reporter, Lucia Villalon, 26. Cristiano's split from Irina was confirmed at the weekend, after days of speculation after she unfollowed him on Twitter. She was also notably absent at his third prestigious Ballon d'Or win celebration on January 12.


However, in Irina's absence was Lucia, a sports journalist who was also pictured celebrating with him on the day. Cristiano was first linked to Lucia when she posted a photo of the pair on Twitter shortly after he received the golden soccer trophy in Zurich, Switzerland. 'There are 3! Golden ball congratulations! Zurich 12/01/15,' she wrote in the caption.


Irina's spokesperson revealed on Saturday: 'We can confirm Irina Shayk has ended her relationship to Cristiano Ronaldo of five years.' A massive argument between his mother and Irina may have resulted in the demise of their romance. Lucia, an avid follower of Cristiano's career, is a state broadcaster. Lucia noticeably braved the plummeting temperatures and sat in the stands at Cristiano's game against Getafe CF on January 18, cheering him on with a couple of girlfriends."


After five years of dating Cristiano with no ring to show for it, Irina's better off without him. Had she ended it after only a year or two and moved on, she could have saved herself a lot of time and energy -- up to and including any fighting with his mother (if that, in fact, happened).

What I find pretty curious, though, is how quickly Cristiano moved on with a sports journalist who just so happened to post a picture of the two of them back in December. All of the sudden, come January 12, Irina's a ghost. 

I'm not saying Lucia wrecked their relationship. For all I know Cristiano could have pursued her. 

But given Lucia posted on Twitter before Cristiano did, is described as an "avid follower" of his career, and sits in the freezing cold all so she can "cheer him on," it makes me think that she didn't exactly take on a passive role with Cristiano. She seems pretty happen in the role of groupie.

My last point on this is that this is why there's no need for a woman to take a break from dating following a split with a man. Cristiano is the perfect illustration to demonstrate that men simply don't feel the same. 

So, do like a man does and don't look back!

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Jordin Sparks Talks Jason Derulo on The Breakfast Club -- Is She Talking Too Much?

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Is anyone else tired of the back-and-forth between Jason Derulo and Jordin Sparks? Every time I turn around, they're divulging further information about their relationship.

Most recently, NecoleBitchie.com reported that Jordin gave an interview on The Breakfast Club where she spilled the details of their romance. 

On whether they broke up because she was pressuring him about marriage
"I figured eventually [we’d marry] because we were together for three years but I wasn’t at this space like, ‘Let’s get married now!’ We had conversations about it but it wasn’t like conversations where he didn’t talk. It was two-sided. But I’m not ready for [marriage]."

On what lead to the breakup
We had an argument or this little tiff or whatever and I apologized because I was like, ‘OK, that came out totally wrong.’ Then it was just really awkward for a second.

It was a different type of [argument], a family type thing. I love his family, which makes me really sad. It was just a normal, we were in a relationship for three years, you start having these little whatever. It just got really awkward and I was like ‘OK, I’m sorry, I apologize.’ I asked if we were good and he was like, ‘Yeah, we’re good.’ I leave and he just doesn’t call.

But he helped me with my bag to the car, kissed me, told me he loved me, then stopped calling me. It really is [dirty]. I can laugh about it now, but at the time I was like ‘What the?!’

On the last time they spoke
I called because I need communication like, we need to talk about this so we can move past it. I’m like that with all my relationships whether it is friendships or not.

He wasn’t responding and I told him that he needs to come get his sh*t. He got all his stuff out of my house because it was my house. He was living with me. But it’s okay. At this point, I don’t need that conversation anymore.

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On Jason living at her house
He’s saying  [he got me this and] that as [he’s] sitting on my bed that I bought. The house that I bought. Parking your car in my garage.

He has his house now. No, he was not trying to save money. Did you see the chain he bought? The car he bought? The house he got? No. But it’s all good though."

I know that Jason has done his fair share of talking about their relationship and Jordin might simply want to 'clear her name.' That's valid.

But the truth is that all she's doing is adding to the noise going into this amount of detail. The reality is that Jason sounded more than done with her and like he didn't want to marry. For that reason, it was pointless for Jordin to even bring up his name.

Plus, Jordin's being contradictory. She loves outing Jason about how he lived at her house, sat on her bed, and parked his car in her garage. If she couldn't stand it so much, why did she stay? Basically she's proved to the world she has poor choice in men.

Truth be told, I never would have called him to come pick up his belongings. The way it went down is that he didn't call her so she did. When he didn't respond, she provoked it further in order to bring it to a head. She needed "closure."

Her closure should have been he wasn't contacting her. If his stuff was so in the way at her house, she could have boxed it up and put it in the garage.

Let him come pick it up when he's ready. If after a few months he doesn't come back, ship it to him or donate it. What she did, though, begged for his attention.

When a man demonstrates that he is so done with you that he's not even returning your calls, then respond in kind. Accept the fact that your closure is knowing that he's not interested in you and move on!

Until next time...
Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa

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