Thursday, April 17, 2014

Does Everyone Think Prince Harry's Ideal Wife Is Cressida Bonas? Why This Doesn't Matter!

Cressida Bonas
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I read this and thought, "Nah. I'm not too worried about it."

E! Online reported that "It sounds like not everyone in Prince Harry's circle of friends and family thinks Cressida Bonas, 25, is right for him. In fact, a few people close to the 29-year-old royal are saying he and his girlfriend shouldn't marry. "There is a growing feeling among a small section of them that Cressida isn't the perfect choice for him," a source tells E! News.

"I don't think it's because there is anything wrong with the relationship or they don't like her, but there is concern that she is too much of a free spirit to be happy in the royal family long-term. They worry that she wouldn't fully adapt to that lifestyle. They think she's too carefree and would find it difficult to live by the protocol that comes with the job, which of course it is. It might be too much of a constraint for her. That could cause problems for everyone."

How nice of everyone to become so concerned about whether Cressida is "royal" material. Clearly this is about whether their jobs will be made difficult and not Harry being with a woman he loves.

So very thoughtful of them.

In any event, the reason I'm not too concerned about who likes Cressida is because all that matters is Harry does. From all accounts, he's crazy about her.

My previous post about them discussed how she played hard-to-get with him. Because she did, he had to have her.

A man who pursues the woman he has to have only knows one thing -- he wants that woman. No other will do.

He will pretty much cut off anyone who doesn't like her. More importantly, he certainly won't leave because of other's opinions.

If what I read about how Cressida has been aloof is accurate, it's safe to say that Harry won't be going anywhere for quite some time!

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Is Kaley Cuoco's Drinking Causing Problems with Husband Ryan Sweeting? Why She Must Dial Back the Jealousy!

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Yep. As anticipated, it didn't take long for these rumors to start. But I didn't think it would include all of this!

CelebDirtyLaundry.com reported "It seems Kaley Cuoco's hubby, Ryan Sweeting, is a perfect match for her, having a past filled with drugs and alcohol. Kaley’s jumping from man to man trying to find some happiness has left her with a lot of insecurities. She is very needy and the former men in her life ran for the hills and left the clingy actress feeling vulnerable and insecure. Alcohol is her way of dealing with those insecurities. Life & Style magazine recently reported that Ryan has a problem with how Kaley acts when she is drunk, not the fact that she is drinking heavily. Kaley feels more bold when she is drinking and says things with no filter. When she begins to get jealous or acts needy with Ryan and he calls her on it, she gets emotional. It’s the up and down emotions of The Big Bang Theory star that are driving Ryan mad.

As we told you back in 2013, Ryan was arrested in 2006 for DUI and drug and alcohol possession. He was then formally charged with third-degree felony for possession of Adderall without a prescription. His blood-alcohol level was between .122 and .133 at the time of his arrest. Consequently, he was suspended from the University of Florida’s tennis team. Kaley’s drinking is making her feel even more paranoid about their relationship so she is laying it on pretty thick. She really wants it to work, despite their problems, if nothing more than to save face after so many joked about their hasty union. It wasn’t so long ago that Kaley was engaged to addiction specialist Josh Resnik. Maybe an addiction specialist living with a closet alcoholic was not good for his career?


The fact that Ryan was arrested 8 years ago for DUI and Adderall doesn't bother me as much as what's happening now. Ryan's problems happened nearly a decade ago and came with some heavy consequences.

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Because he hasn't been in trouble since, it might be safe to say that he learned his lesson. I'm not quite sure why the tabloid thinks it somehow might be impacting them now.

Of concern, though, is Kaley's drinking. By the way, notice the article said nothing about Ryan's drinking. He might not be going as heavy as Kaley is.

I know their relationship moved too fast in the beginning. They had one date and Ryan moved in with Kaley. I worried for her that could become an issue because he didn't have to pursue her.

But if Kaley doesn't dial back her drinking (or stop all together), Ryan very well could leave. Some people can't handle other's addictions...married or not.

Either way, she needs to make sure that her jealousy is under control. It Girls aren't jealous and needy. Doing this while drunk just looks sloppy.

Maybe this story about Kaley's drinking isn't true and it would be great if it weren't. She's so talented and funny that it would be very sad to hear she might have a problem with alcohol. I don't want it to ruin her marriage.

Ok, sending lots of love to Kaley!


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Kourtney Kardashian and Scott Disick Not Marrying after All -- Would She Have Had Good Reason to Anyway?

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I'm actually happy to hear this because the thought of them marrying didn't sit too well with me.

RadarOnline.com reported via a new report from E! that "Kourtney Kardashian and Scott Discick aren't tying the knot in the near future. This news follows months of fervent speculation she would exchange “I do’s” with her love of almost eight years sometime this summer. “It’s not happening,” a Kardashian insider told E!, adding that “they’re very happy as is. “It’s a story the tabloids revisit constantly, but there’s no truth to it and never has been.”

They reportedly scouted locales ranging from Santa Barbara to the San Ysidro Ranch in planning the ceremony. It’s no secret that Kourtney, 34, has had famously cold feet about tying the knot with Scott, 30 — possibly due to her family’s unlucky gambles at the altar, with Kim twice-divorced at 33, while Khloe's once-ideal marriage to Lamar Odom blew up in spectacular fashion last year."

Hmmm....I wouldn't go so far as to say that there's anything "spectacular" about how Khloe and Lamar's marriage ended because of his drug addiction. It all seemed pretty sad to me.

As for Kourtney and Scott, I'm relieved she won't be marrying him. From what I read during this last go around with the tabloids, Kourtney was only considering it because she realized that she's Scott's last hope for family.

While I think that any woman who does this has her heart in the right place, it's no reason to marry a man. What starts off as pity will quickly turn to resentment if you don't just love him like crazy.

Aside from that, though, I've always thought that Scott has too much of a temper. Even though he hasn't done anything major recently, I'm still a tad nervous about him.

I guess Kim and Kanye's wedding will have to hold us over for awhile!

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More Convincing Reasons Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott Planned His Affair -- Will You Tune In?

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How very convenient!

In my last post about Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott, I said that I was beginning to wonder whether Dean's affair was staged for publicity. After reading the article below, I'm becoming even more convinced this is the case.

RadarOnline.com reported "After four months of silence, jilted wife Tori Spelling is finally opening up about her love rat husband Dean McDermott's infidelity, declaring that “he completely broke my heart.” Tori, 40, initially brushed off the report that Dean, 47, had cheated in Toronto just days before Christmas 2013, saying: “I really believed it was just another one of those stories. And he denied it.” However, the next week she confronted him again. “He was very nervous— I saw it in his face,” she told Us Weekly. “He said they had kissed but that was it. I knew in that moment the worst had happened.”

The next morning, after taking “full responsibility” for sleeping with Canadian beauty Emily Goodhand, 28, Dean went to treatment for unspecified issues. Now that he's out of rehab, Tori reveals her relationship is still in complete disarray. “I don’t know if my marriage can be saved,” she admits. “He was my soulmate, but he completely broke my heart. It makes you not trust anything that’s happened in your relationship.”
Tori Spelling, Dean McDermott
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The heartbroken Tori — who says she hasn’t had sex with her husband since December— confesses that Dean still lives in their L.A. home “because there are children involved. For their sakes, I need to try to figure this out.” (The couple are parents to Liam, 7, Stella, 5, Hattie, 2, and Finn, 20 months.)
Though she hasn’t made any decisions, Tori is staying strong. “Whichever way my marriage goes, I finally have my voice back and can be honest,” she says.

Tori and Dean will share their marital turmoil with fans in Lifetime reality show True Tori, premiering April 22 at 10 PM.

Oh. I see. The last sentence really ties it all together, doesn't it? By the way, I pretty much assumed it was true back when Dean didn't deny it. Now I understand why.

So Tori stays quiet for four months. Then, coincidentally, one week before their show airs, she all of the sudden becomes courageous and opens up. She's now ready to discuss her broken heart.

But, she makes sure to let people know everything is still so "uncertain" between them. Who knows "whether the marriage can be saved."

Clearly this is so we will all feel compelled to tune in to see what happens. Wow. What a nail biter this one is. (Eye roll).

Yeah. Ummm...pass. I won't be watching. Thanks anyway, Tori.

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Geri Haliwell Dating Formula 1 Christian Horner -- Is It Moving Too Fast Already?

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Once again, she's moving too fast.

DailyMailUK.com reported "They only started dating last month, but it seems as though Geri Halliwell's relationship with Formula 1 team boss Christian Horner is going from strength to strength. The former Spice Girls star looked entirely smitten as she and Horner enjoyed a stroll in the London sunshine together on Wednesday. With a beaming smile spread wide across her face, Geri, 41, looked in her element while Christian kept a protective hand on the small of his girlfriend's back. Horner played the doting boyfriend as he and Geri fitted in some shopping on Hampstead High Street."

Geri has a history of going full speed ahead in romance. She did it with Russell Brand in August of 2012 and then again with Russian millionaire gambling tycoon Anton Kaszubowski in early January 2013.

While she stayed quiet on Russell, she told the world Anton was the one she waited for only to have it end because she supposedly became bored. Although I think it just fizzled out.

When you move too fast with a man and run around telling everyone he's perfect, you look like the woman who rushes into relationships. You'll come across as flighty and not measured in your approach to love.

As for Christian, the fact that Geri has enough time for a leisurely stroll during the week to shop doesn't look good for her. She should be so busy that she doesn't have time to see him during the week just yet.

At this point, one month into it, Geri should see Christian for their weekend date. It isn't good that new romance is being described as "strength to strength." I'd like to see the story read, "Yeah, they're dating and Geri's going slow."

We'll see!

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Vanessa

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Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Cameron Diaz Says It Could Be Unrealistic for Men to Understand All of Women's Needs -- Does She Have a Point?

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This is an interesting perspective and I wanted to share it with my readers.

HuffPo reported via the Mirror that "One man may not be enough to satisfy Cameron Diaz.The "Other Woman" star recently said, "We can have all of these girlfriends and friendships. I know with my girlfriends I do totally different things with each of them. There are different commonalities in each of them. When I want to do those certain things, I go to that girlfriend and we do those things together. 

For some reason, we get into relationships and expect one man to understand ‘all’ the parts of us and meet those needs. I think that’s where everything fails," she said. Asked about having many lovers, she responded, “Why not? Why would that be so bad?” 

In her own life, Diaz doesn't believe in monogamy. "A lot of people chase after it because they’ve been told, 'This equals happiness,'" she told InStyle magazine for the May 2014 issue. "They get it and find out, ‘Why did I think this would make me happy? I'm miserable.' I don’t know if anyone is naturally monogamous,” she said. “We all have the same instincts as animals. But we live in a society where it’s been ingrained in us to do these things."

I can't say that I necessarily agree or disagree with Cameron. There are some people who truly aren't happy in monogamous relationships. It is what it is.

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However, I've noticed a woman will say something along these lines and then try to have an "open" relationship with a man. Say he goes for it. It's all well and good until he blows her off so he can be with another woman. Or, it becomes evident he has feelings for someone else.

It's then a woman will realize that she wants exclusivity and doesn't want him sleeping with other women. She likes knowing that she's the one he has to have and no one else.

If you're honest with yourself and know you can't sleep with a man without becoming attached (and don't feel badly if that's you!), don't bother pretending you're fine with a no-strings attached relationship. 

Once you cross into the land of "hook-up buddy" it's very difficult to cross back into the world of girlfriend or wife material. You may as well take it slow and see where it goes instead of falling into bed with him.

To Cameron's point about how it's difficult to expect one man to fulfill all of your needs, I agree with her. I'm not saying it isn't possible, only that I can see a woman being in love with a man who might enjoy different things than she. 

This is why it's crucial to maintain a life outside of a man. Keep all of those girlfriends and do what you enjoy. The problem here is the expectations that a woman will have about a man being her everything. If she's more realistic about some of his limitations, she will know to seek it elsewhere.

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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