According to Popcrush.com, "Benji cemented his devotion to Cameron by permanently inking her name across his chest — you know, in case the wedding wasn’t proof enough of his love for her. Taking to Instagram on Feb. 23, he posted a photo of his new tattoo, which is a scripted version of the name Cameron emblazoned in black in the middle of his chest.
The couple is super low-key, so it’s an interesting and very public way for Benji to let everyone know just how serious he is about his love for Cameron. No word yet from Cameron as to how she feels about the tattoo, but Benji is clearly head-over-heels, as he captioned the photo “'Thinking bout you #LuckyMan.'”
I love the whole "No word yet from Cameron as to how she feels about the tattoo." This is great. She leaves a little bit of mystery.
Now, I'm not saying Cameron was perfect with Benji. She let him move in with her, traveled a lot with him, and they were always seen all over one another.
What worked in her favor, though, is that she didn't care about whether she married and never really publicly spoke about her romance with Benji. Even though they're married now, Cameron still keeps her thoughts to herself and out of the limelight.
And to think in 2011, I wrote 3 Reasons Why Cameron Diaz Should Hush! Back then, she was going on and on about how much she loved porn, likes to have sex, and how she must be in constant physical contact with her boyfriends.
But then she completely turns this around with Benji. Next thing you know, she's married and he's tattooing her name on his chest (something neither A-Rod nor Diddy ever did for her). Cameron was getting nowhere with her approach to men back in the day. All of the sudden (maybe not even knowingly) she stopped talking so much and then she marries.
Mind you, I'm not saying a woman can't be outspoken. George Clooney's wife is a human rights attorney and she landed him. I'll bet she has plenty to say.
It's how much you talk about the man in your life that will make all the difference. This means keep information about your boyfriend off of social media (unless he's the one posting it) and don't talk about him too much to his family or friends.
You can never go wrong with playing it close to the vest!
Until next time...
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