Monday, November 17, 2014

Nina Dobrev Keeps Her Mystery about Who She Dates -- Can We Say the Same for Ian Somerhalder?

Nina Dobrev, Ian Somerhalder, Nikki Reed
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Not flaunting your relationships all over social media as a way of throwing it in your ex's face can only work in your favor.

CelebDirtyLaundry.com reported"Is Nina Dobrev hiding a secret boyfriend? Would it shock anyone if she was? The girl is 25 years old, very pretty, and works in Hollywood – and has been single for the past year? Yeah, right…

I’m not saying that she has a new boyfriend, even though that’s what we’re hearing. But I’m sure that she has had various hookups and flings, but has managed to keep the identity of those men secret. However, if she does have a new boyfriend, then kudos to her for keeping it secret. Her ex-boyfriend, Ian Somerhalder, has a new girlfriend, Nikki Reed, and he keeps talking about how much he loves her to the whole world.

I give credit to Nina for keeping her love life quiet, and not wanting to throw her water in Ian’s face every time he starts talking about Nikki. No matter how you put it, discussing your girlfriend in such glowing terms while you still work with your ex is such a not-nice thing to do. He should take a cue from her and learn to keep his romantic life out of the media."

Before talking about Nina, I want to briefly discuss Ian first. In fairness to him, Ian didn't date anyone for the longest. He was completely silent on the relationship front until Nikki came along. Contrast this to Nina who has been linked to many different men in the past year. 

What I am getting at is I believe Ian's really in love with Nikki and not just trying to make Nina jealous. True, it might not seem nice that he's being so effusive about his new girlfriend while working with his ex. 

At the same time, though, he wanted Nina back forever and probably thinks she doesn't care a wit about what he writes about Nikki. Plus, he was equally all over social media with his relationship with Nina. He's not doing anything out of the ordinary.

As for Nina, I've always liked it about her that she keeps her relationships out of the limelight. The only reason we know who she's linked to is because the press spies on her -- not because she advertises it on social media. 

The more notable takeaway for me here is that this tabloid is essentially complimenting Nina for being mysterious. All too often you see a woman posting her relationship business everywhere which proves she cares a great deal about what other people think.

Keep your private life private. You can never go wrong by always making them wonder!

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David McIntosh Said Kelly Brook Would Dump Him to See If He'd Date Other Women -- Was This Fair?

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Never dump a man just because you're looking for a reaction from him. Otherwise it just might be one you really don't like.

DailyMailUK.com reported"When his whirlwind romance with Kelly Brook publicly hit its first rocky patch, David Mcintosh was dealt the brunt of the blame, thanks to accusations that he cheated on her with an ex. But David, 28, is now telling his side of the story to Reveal magazine, claiming he endured relentless bullying at the hands of the 34-year-old curvaceous beauty, to whom he was engaged.

'The thing is, Kelly was so amazing to begin with. She was attentive, we had a laugh together and I was relaxed with her,' said the former Gladiator, who also claimed that Kelly regularly dumped him to see if he'd date other women."

Anyone who watches Friends probably remembers the "Rachel and Ross" saga where she was mad at him for sleeping with another woman the night they were "on a break." While I understood that Rachel was upset, it truly wasn't as if Ross cheated on her.

Judging by how quickly Rachel wanted Ross back the next day, it was obvious she didn't want the break. It was something she said in a moment of frustration.

Which leads me to my point about Kelly and David. Kelly never should have dumped David just for a reaction or so that she could watch his moves to see if he'd date other women. 

The reality is that once you dump a man, all bets are off. You might think that you have some sort of stake in the relationship or who he sleeps with afterwards, but you don't.

Moreover, this sort of behavior is manipulative. Some of you might protest, "But Vanessa, don't you always tell women to play hard-to-get? That's manipulative!"

Here's the difference. Playing hard-to-get is so that a man wants you around more and doesn't take you for granted. Dumping a man to see if he cheats so you can then be angry with him later if he dates someone else is downright insane and plain not fair. 

Just remember once you call it quits, it's done. What he does after is none of your business.

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Sunday, November 9, 2014

Robin Thicke Spotted Grabbing Liquor Despite Problems with It -- Is Paula Patton's Reaction Extreme?

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Well, I'm thrilled she finally pulled the plug on her marriage. And after reading this, I think it's even better that she didn't break and go back to him.

DailyMailUK.com reported, "He's been partying up a storm since estranged wife Paula Patton, 38, filed for divorce last month. And Blurred Lines hitmaker Robin Thicke's penchant for good times seems to extend to his diet. The 37-year-old singer pulled over at an In-N-Out Burger for a tasty treat on Tuesday in Los Angeles, where his good looks and charm seemed to work on the waitress serving him.

Driving his black Porsche, Robin enjoyed a quick chat with the waitress serving him his burger and fries, who was all smiles and giggles as she handed him his food. Once he'd wolfed down his food and still clutching his drink, the star headed over to an off-licence in Sherman Oaks, where he purchased a bottle of alcohol which he took back to his car.

Robin recently admitted to battling prescription drug and alcohol problems in a legal court document. 'Every day I woke up, I'd take a Vicodin to start the day and fill a water bottle with vodka and drink it before and during my interviews.'  The singer said at the time of the deposition which was filed in August, that he was off Vicodin for two months, but still drinks.

According to In Touch Weekly, Paula is hoping for full custody of their four-year-old son Julian. A source said: 'Paula will not allow Robin to be present in Julian's life if he is still drinking and using drugs. He needs to stop altogether.' The actress left Robin in February after 21 years together and filed for divorce in October citing 'irreconcilable differences.' Paul reportedly moved her new boyfriend, musician Zak Waters, into her home. On Halloween, Robin consoled himself by partying with a gaggle of very scantily clad women. TMZ reported the star spent $2,800 on sexy lingerie and fancy dress outfits for a group of four ladies at the Trashy Lingerie store.

The reason I'm still happy Paula left Robin has nothing to do with his exchange with the waitress at In-N-Out. He was just being a guy flirting with the cute server while eating a burger -- no big deal.

What I did not like is how he was spotted going straight from the burger to the liquor store. For most people this might not be an issue. But for Robin, it is.

As noted, he already had to admit that he hits the bottle too much. I'm also quite positive that his escapade with the scantily clad women didn't happen in a liquor free zone.

It's safe to say, too, that Paula has made it known she's pushing for full custody and the reason why is she's concerned he's a drunk. Some might think her reaction to his drinking is extreme. But I wouldn't do it any differently.

The reason this is so important is because some women might hedge when it comes to making drastic decisions such as this. Their friends might say something like, "Well, you might make his drinking worse if you take his child away,"

If you're one of these women, don't believe it. Someone else's drinking is not your problem. It's also nothing compared to the regret you'll feel for not intervening earlier were something tragic to occur.

I completely agree until Robin stops drinking that Paula should protect their child and herself. I'm not thrilled she moved her boyfriend into her home. Yet, this doesn't change that she should keep Robin at arms length.

It's clear Robin didn't have his head in the game for marriage and family. Hopefully, he'll figure out his drinking.

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Wednesday, October 29, 2014

Chris Martin and Jennifer Lawrence Split -- Is Gwyneth Paltrow Saying "I Told You So?"

Jennifer Lawrence, Chris Martin, Gwyneth Paltrow
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Even if she knew she was right, she nevertheless sounds like a know-it-all.

RadarOnline.com reported, "Jennifer Lawrence, 24, and Chris Martin, 37, fizzled out after just four months. News of the Lawrence – Martin split broke Monday, but according to a source, “Gwyneth wasn’t surprised. She never thought the relationship would last because of their age difference. Plus, Jen complained to Chris that she felt like the third wheel in their relationship because of all the time he spent with his kids.

Meanwhile, 'Gwyneth always pressured Chris to spend more time with Apple and Moses,' the source revealed. 'The kids would constantly call Chris when with Jennifer, and whatever they were doing would come to a standstill.' Lawrence and Martin kept their relationship quiet for a long time, even after photographed together backstage at one of Chris' concerts. 

But all hope is not lost. According to the source, 'Even though Gywneth didn’t take Chris’ relationship with Jen seriously, there is a chance they could get back together. Jen is young and impulsive, and Chris still has very strong feelings for her.'”

We all had a feeling Jennifer and Chris wouldn't last. I never understood what she was doing with him in the first place. Aside from the age difference, Chris is still married to Gwyneth and they already have two children. 

The fact that Jennifer felt like a third wheel when with him is unfortunate. No woman likes feeling as if she's being slighted. People might say, "Well, what did she expect?" But even knowing it doesn't make it easier.

I could be way off on this, but I wonder if Gwyneth made sure to encourage those calls when Chris was with Jennifer. As for spending more time with the children, we always heard about how Gwyneth and Chris vacationed together here, there, and everywhere. She can hardly make a case that Chris is an absentee father.

What I suspect is true about this story is Gwyneth really did go around snarkily telling everyone that she knew his relationship with Jennifer wouldn't last. But what Gwyneth has confused is that it doesn't sound like Chris is losing interest in Jennifer as much as Jennifer's losing patience with his family situation. 

So, maybe Gwyneth should have a seat on her "I told you" so's. The verdict is still out on Chris and Jennifer. Gwyneth will eat humble pie if it turns out Chris is really into Jennifer and wants her back.

We'll see what happens with this one!

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Taylor Swift Goes on David Letterman -- Did She Inadvertently Call Harry Styles a Lousy Ex?

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While it isn't clear whether she's talking about a specific ex, she once again tipped her hand that she has lousy taste in men.

HollywoodLife.com reported, "Taylor Swift, 24, stopped by ‘The Late Show With David Letterman’ to promote her new album, but ended up talking about how it’s been a while since she dated a ‘lousy’ guy. Taylor is done with dating — at least for the time being. Instead, the “Out of the Woods” singer, whose new album, 1989, has sold 600,000 copies in less than 24 hours, said she’s focusing on herself and her amazing female friendships.

David Letterman, 67, agreed with Taylor and said guys are jerks. Clearly, Taylor can attest to that! Taylor told David that she hasn’t “had any lousy boyfriends in the last year and a half.” Did she call her last boyfriend, Harry Styles, lousy? She doesn’t say those exact words, but by saying she hasn’t had a “lousy” boyfriend in the last year and a half indicates that the guy she was dating before then was “lousy.”

Harry and Taylor broke up in early 2013, following a short courtship. At least Taylor’s ex-boyfriends inspired her to write many hit songs, including “Out of the Woods,” which is more than likely about the One Direction singer. Instead of men, Taylor is focusing on female friendships, especially with new bestie, Lena Dunham! Taylor called her friendship with Lena, 28, “empowering.”

The big question here, apparently, is whether Taylor called Harry a lousy ex? 

As much of a nail biter that this is (I know, the anticipation is killing me, too), does it matter? Even if she wasn't talking about Harry, Taylor's still letting on that she can't pick 'em and that the men she dates treat her badly.

This is what gets me about all of her work. It's always same ole', same ole,' which makes her seem so one-dimensional. She incessantly talks about her issues with men.

The crazy thing is that I know Taylor is incredibly business savvy. Yet, this never comes across in any of her interviews.

All we hear out of Taylor is boys are mean and they screw her over. People say she's young, but there are so many young adult women who present themselves as infinitely more emotionally stable than she is.

And how is Lena Dunham empowering? Lena has been seeing Jack Antonofff for well over two years and he hasn't proposed. Most recently, he admitted that he isn't ready for marriage and Lena is still sticking around.

Just once I'd love it if Taylor gave it a rest when it comes to discussing men. But with 600,000 copies sold in less than 24 hours, I can only assume that won't happen.

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Vanessa

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