Tuesday, May 19, 2015

Miguel Talks Why He Hasn't Married Nazanin Mandi -- Why She Needs to Stop Being a Doormat!

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There's nothing worse than seeing a woman utterly waste her time on a man -- especially when it's for years!

Bossip.com reported, (1) "Even though they’ve been together over a decade, Miguel explains why he has yet to even propose to his model girlfriend, Nazanin Mandi. He recently sat down with Hot 97 and said, 'He “doesn’t feel the pressure” to get married and was not raised to “throw things around” like that.

'You gotta know who you are as a person, first of all. And I think I’ve come so far as a man and I’m just starting to feel solid, where I feel I can hold this down legitimately. I think people now like throw things around like marriage. I just wasn’t raised like that. I don’t feel the pressure because I know that when I commit, I can really commit. Now it’s just thrown around because it’s so easy to break up. I’m not that kind of person. I’m just not…I wouldn’t do that to her and I wasn’t raised like that. I just don’t feel like that is honorable.'

He also added that he’s “wild at heart” and Nazanin’s “learned to adjust.” 'Like I really am wild hearted, like I’m wild at heart. I follow my instincts. And that’s what this album is about. And I think she’s learned that and she’s had to adjust, had to learn to embrace…and I love her for that.' And in case you were wondering if that means that he’s cheated on her, this was his response. 'I just know I’m wild at heart man.'”

I love Miguel's whole "You gotta know who you are as a person." He's just so...evolved and self-actualized (eye roll). Basically, he's saying that he won't commit, yet won't correct the idea that he's cheated on her. 

So, not raised to throw things around like marriage. But...what? Cheating is just fine. Sorry, I suppose I'm missing the point where he's so honorable.

Either way, it's Nazanin who should leave. Normally, I would say that a woman should have the whole, "Where is this going?" talk and if there's no timeline for marriage to be on her way.

In this instance, though, I think it's too far gone. If Miguel cheated, this one is done and done, especially after a decade and no ring. Not to mention, he goes on the air and publicly lets the world know that she's pretty much his doormat. 

A man who says that he loves you for "embracing and adjusting to who he is" is full of it. He doesn't love you. He loves what you put up with because he has the best of both worlds -- someone steady and the option to not take you seriously.

Nazanin needs to leave. Yesterday.

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Sofia Vergara Talks Not Being Interested in Joe Manganiello at First -- Why This Worked in Her Favor!

Sofia Vergara, Joe Manganiello
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Love the stories where the man pursued the woman! This one ended in an engagement -- and most likely marriage!

People.com reported, "Now they are one of the most talked about – not to mention, gorgeous – couples in Hollywood. But Sofia Vergara wasn't sold about going out with Joe Manganiello right away.

The Hot Pursuit actress, 42, said that it took a plane ride for the Magic Mike XXL actor, 38, just to get a first date with her. 'I'm so lucky I couldn't believe it. At the beginning I didn't want to go out with him,' the Modern Family actress told Ellen DeGeneres on Friday during a visit to her show to promote her new comedy.


'I just finished a relationship … he seemed like a lot of work because [he's] so handsome and younger than me and so sexy and best bachelor or whatever he was,' she explained. 'And I'm like, "Ugh." Just too much!'


But after a hop, skip and a flight to Louisiana, PEOPLE's Hottest Bachelor convinced her otherwise. '
He flew to New Orleans and forced me on a date. And then ... I'm like, "He's a great guy, super fun, super normal and … we click." It's super easy to hang out with him.'

The engaged couple first met briefly in May 2012 at the MTV Movie Awards and again at the White House Correspondents' Dinner two years later. But by December 2014, Manganiello had popped the question in Hawaii and are now in the process of moving in together. '
She's got the curves, she's got a beautiful face, beautiful hair, just gorgeous. Naturally beautiful. She's feisty!' the actor told PEOPLE in August."

The reason I like this one so much is because of how on the fence Sofia initially was about dating Joe. I remember that she started dating him pretty quickly after splitting with awful Nick Loeb. 

Even then, I thought to myself that Joe must have moved fast to take advantage of the fact that she was single. He recognized that she's a catch and didn't let the opportunity slip through his fingers.

Notice, too, that Joe did all of the work to prove to Sofia that he was worth her time. He flew to Louisiana to convince her to go out on a date with him while she was filming and essentially pursued her. 

Because the beginning started off with Joe taking the lead, it didn't come as much of a surprise that he proposed within less than a year of dating. Hey, when a man has to have you -- he makes it known.

This is why I always say that relationships need not be a struggle. You know when a man is into you because it's so easy. The reason why is because he does all of the work all the while you are courted -- as it should be!

Now, I've commented quite a bit on how Sofia is a bit too heart on her sleeve. I still think she could dial it back a bit. 

For what it's worth, though, it's clear that Joe unquestionably knew she is the woman he had to have. I have no doubt they'll make it down the aisle!

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Tuesday, May 5, 2015

Kylie Jenner Pushing Tyga to Come Clean about Blac Chyna -- Why a Man's Rejection Is Not Closure!

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I've rolled my eyes at this one long enough. Today, I feel compelled to comment.

HollywoodLife.com reported, "Kylie Jenner, 17, told Tyga that it’s time for him to man up and accept that he was wrong to send Blac Chyna text messages behind her back. Kylie has had enough of Tyga, 25, and his excuses. She wants him to finally own up to his mistakes — especially his secret text messaging relationship with his ex, Blac Chyna, 26.

Apparently, after Tyga tried explaining to Kylie that he had been texting Blac to keep her 'happy,' his young girlfriend was not having any of it. 'Kylie didn’t buy it! She told Tyga, "You could have been nice to her without making it seem like you wanted to sleep with her. And why don’t you be a man and stop using your son as an excuse. Grow a pair. I thought you were over the ratchet ones. If you still like her just tell me, I can take it.'”

Tyga did not take Kylie’s angry rant very well and hang up on her! The heated conversation would have never happened if Kylie hadn’t taken the advice her father gave her. In fact, it was Bruce Jenner who told Kylie to hear Tyga out before making any rash decisions about their relationship. 'Kylie‘s bark is stronger than her bite. She loves Tyga and cares about him. After her father told her to listen to him, she Skyped with Tyga.'"

I've watched this saga unfold for months now. Will Tyga recognize their relationship or won't he? Will he propose to Kylie on her 18th birthday? Is he cheating on her with Blac Chyna? On and on with the drama. And now this.

Of course, Kylie's young and highly emotional relationships are practically a mainstay at her age. With that said, it's never too early to learn how to keep your dignity with a man.

What bugged me the most is how Kylie told Tyga "If you still like her, just tell me. I can take it." Apparently, Kylie needs to hear what she already knows which is that Tyga isn't exactly devoted to her. This is her closure.


Kylie Jenner, Tyga
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Let's talk about closure. Countless women feel that they need a man to reject them for proper closure. If he stops calling, they want to call him to make sure it's really over. If he seems interested in another woman, they want to hear him say it. 

The truth of the matter is that if it doesn't seem like a man wants you, he doesn't. When a man wants a woman, she knows. Yet, women are so hung up on taking advice from others about how important it is to "hear out" a man who isn't treating her well.

Why? Is it because that's what she wants to hear? She hopes the reality isn't what it seems so she wants to confront him. What a lousy way to end something that can wreak havoc on a woman's self-esteem. A man having to tell a woman he's not interested in her anymore should be something she avoids at any cost.

Now, I'm sure plenty of women will argue that they were finally able to move on from a man once he told her it was over. All I can say to this is that I don't agree with a man's rejection as a form of closure.

Here's the kicker, too. What makes any woman think a man will be honest? In the instance of Kylie and Tyga, she's put up with so much of his nonsense that he has zero incentive to tell her whether he's interested in another woman. He could tell her for days that he doesn't have feelings for Blac Chyna all the while texting her behind Kylie's back.

Further, don't expect a man to kiss your rear if you bust him texting and/or cheating with another woman. As seen with Kylie, Tyga hung up on her. This is why it's up to the woman to stay in control and not need a man's rejection in order for her to move on.

There's a difference between a man's words and his actions. Learn it. If the two are inconsistent, read the writing on the wall and move on.

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Monday, May 4, 2015

Amanda Seyfried Needs to Close the Deal with Justin Long -- Why She Seems Complacent!

Amanda Seyfried, Justin Long
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Augh! Back in the day, Amanda Seyfried was so on point with men and being the It Girl. Now she just seems complacent and lacking in mystery.

DailyMailUK.com reported, "They have being dating for nearly two years. And on Wednesday, Amanda and her boyfriend Justin Long looked very much in sync as they enjoyed a low-key stroll in West Village, New York City. The Hollywood couple - who have been together since October 2013 - were spotted walking the actress’ beloved pet dog Finn as they soaked up the balmy climes.

The American beauty previously talked about her love for walking her beloved pooch with Justin during an interview on the Ellen DeGeneres Show last year, explaining they do ‘everything together’. ‘We walk my dog. And we have, we make these smoothies in the morning,’ she said. ‘They're called "Greenies." He got me onto that. Super healthy. And then we watch The Bachelor and The Bachelorette.’"

Yep. Nothing like playing house and acting married to a man when you aren't. Oh, I know this interview happened a while ago. But Amanda and Justin still aren't engaged which tells me that it's highly likely not a thing has changed.

Whenever you hear about a couple who does "everything together" and they aren't married or engaged, trust that this is a huge part of the reason the man hasn't popped the question. He doesn't need to because he's already living like a married person.

Justin is no different. At this point, Amanda needs to close the deal. She should ask him "Where is this going?" and see whether he has any intention of proposing. If not, it's "buh-bye" to Justin.

Sure, it's great to have a guy who wants to do everything with you. But how much of a prize do you really think he sees you as when you give him all of the time in the world with no boundaries in place?

Never forget that the Platinum Girl takes an active role in her dating life. We don't just hang out watching reality tv and drinking smoothies with men who haven't made it very clear they want to marry us -- and follow through with it.

We date others until the deal is closed and don't waste time!

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Sunday, May 3, 2015

Ariana Grande and Big Sean Split Becoming Nasty -- Is It Because She Didn't Beg Him to Stay?

Ariana Grande, Big Sean
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It sounds like a very nasty break-up! And with nasty break-ups, sometimes not talking is really for the best.

HollywoodLife.com reported"Big Sean and Ariana Grande had quite the messy break up — and it’s going to take a toll on their relationship for life! In fact, the exes may take it so far that they won’t ever even talk again now that they’ve split. 'Sean wants nothing to do with Ariana and has very strong negative feelings toward her. He has expressed to his friends and inner circle that he thinks she’s immature and selfish. It sounds like he really dislikes her so much now, that the two may never even speak again!'

This Ariana and Big Sean split is so complicated, with both stars telling two different sides of a very dramatic story. For Sean, tension started in February, when Ariana failed to show up to his big show at the House Of Blues in West Hollywood because she was preparing for the Grammy Awards. Things heightened when she indulged in some on-stage PDA with Justin Bieber, 21, at two of her concerts.

But Ariana wasn’t too thrilled with the relationship, either — especially when her man released a very graphic song, referencing her 'billion dollar p—y,' that had her grandmother calling with questions. Eek. According to sources from Sean’s camp, he was expecting Ariana to put up a fight after he told her his decision to end things, and he 'most likely would have stayed with her if she made an effort."

I couldn't help but smirk as I read this. Knowing that Ariana didn't say a word about Sean ending their romance is pretty amusing. I have to wonder if their split is becoming nasty because she didn't fight for him.

Even funnier is that Sean's now telling everyone how much he dislikes Ariana, but "most likely" would have stayed had she acted like she cared. In other words, sounds like his plan backfired. Maybe he hoped for a reaction that just never came to fruition.

My advice to women has always been that even if you are being dumped there is still a way to maintain your dignity. Simply do not bat an eye when a man ends it. Say "ok" and be on your way.

Some might think that Ariana should have tried harder to salvage their relationship given what happened with Justin. The reality is that she didn't have much regret about how everything went down. At least not enough to worry about keeping Sean in her life.

As for Ariana and Sean deciding not to talk -- that's probably for the best. There will be less opportunity for them to backslide which means no drama. 

Either way, good for Ariana. I'd much rather read press about a woman whose attitude about a man says "good riddance" than one who lets everyone know she's miserable without him!

Until next time...

Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa

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