DailyMailUK.com reported "Demi Lovato, 22, spent some quality time with her two favourite boys on Wednesday evening – and later documented their low-key evening with an intimate snap. Demi posted a shot in which she is seen relaxing with boyfriend Wilmer Valderrama and adorable pup Buddy during a quiet night in.
With Wilmer’s head in her lap and Buddy sleeping by her side, Demi looks content while holding her phone aloft for the self-taken snap, which she captioned: ‘My boys are really sleepy… And I’m the luckiest woman in the world…’
Previously quiet about her relationship with Wilmer, that changed on November 17 when the singer declared her love for him. The star, who was on tour and obviously lonely, posted a cute Instagram snap of her beau kissing her cheek, with the caption: 'I never post personal pictures like this but f***.. He is perfect. I miss my @wilmervalderrama.'
In December the singer and actress shared a shot of them boarding a plane with the message: 'Christmas Eve headed to Dallas with my little family,' In the black-and-white snap, the two are canoodling in front of a private plane, as Demi is cradling her little white pooch. The adorable dog was an early Christmas gift, which Demi announced on Instagram two weeks ago by gushing, 'Guys....... SANTA CAME EARLY THIS YEAR...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!' along with a snap of her eyeing her new pet."
Notice anything about this story? I did. I noticed that it's always Demi talking about Wilmer and using social media to express her love.
Now, I understand that it's not as if she's doing this everyday. But she's done it a lot more than Wilmer has. Where is his outpouring of affection for her?
Because Wilmer does not show his affection to the degree that Demi does, I'd like to see her follow his lead. In other words, if he's not singing from the hilltops, neither should she.
A woman who does more than a man in a relationship leaves herself open to resentment. This is simply because his lack of reciprocity is identified as him not being in love with her as she with him.
And...well...this assessment is correct.
Hopefully Demi doesn't end up hurt. I'd hate to think of her setting herself up for a set back. Especially a set back that happens because of a man.
Until next time...
Shine like Platinum!