Monday, September 1, 2014

Did Brandon Jennings Dump LaShontae Heckard over Nelly? Why You Can't Be Mean to the Nice Guy!

Brandon Jennings, LaShontae Heckard, Nelly
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This is why you can't make a fool out the man who's so crazy about you. No matter how into you he might seem, a man will drop you. 

NecoleBitchie.com reported, "It was all good just last month when Brandon Jennings and LaShontae Heckard were spotted out and about together. But it looks like their whirlwind romance may have come to an end.

The former couple began dating four months ago after Brandon made Tae his Woman Crush Wednesday. Both seemed to have been rebounding with Tae fresh out of a relationship with Nelly, and Brandon fresh out of a relationship with Teyana Taylor.

Brandon was so sprung and in love, he proposed a month into their relationship. But judging from his tweets last night, the Pistons player has chucked the deuces at Tae –and it’s all thanks to MediaTakeOut?

According to the website, Tae possibly cheated on Brandon when she went out with her ex Nelly behind his back.

Taking to Twitter, Brandon tweeted a thank you to MTO for the story while asking, 'Where’s Ashanti at???' He also added, 'but that’s not why the engagement is off, I been dead that,' before revealing that Tae tried to play him for a sucka, and the valuable lesson he’s learned because of all this — 'If you ain’t married to her, she’s everybody ‘GIRL.’”

In the same manner that I don't like it when a woman bashes a man over social media, I'm equally not a fan of a man who does it. No matter the gender, I think it makes people look so very sad.

I also wouldn't normally be so inclined to believe a man's version of events over a woman's, but this case is different. Brandon has never tried to hide the fact that he was crazy about Tae and she's had a thing with Nelly forever now.

Which is why my senses say it's highly probable Brandon's telling the truth. Now, maybe Tae doesn't care that she lost Brandon. But if she does, this is a lesson for her.

Brandon Jennings, LaShontae Heckard, Nelly
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If Nelly had anything to do with their split, Tae made a bad judgment call. Nelly never proposed to or married Ashanti after the near decade that he dated her. 

Tae never should've gambled away the man who knew immediately she was "The One" and wanted to marry her practically on the spot. Especially not for one who seems to have no interest in marriage.

The other lesson here is that you can't be mean to the nice men -- you cannot! I'm not saying you have to date them. 

But you can't treat the good ones badly. They will drop you in a second if they have any amount of self-esteem -- which Brandon clearly does.

What's worse is that once you play the nice guy, I swear it's as if the universe punishes you. Karma comes back with a vengeance and takes forever to go away. 

Oh, I know that it's a double standard. Men have screwed over women since the beginning of time and will continue to do so indefinitely. For some reason, though, women can't screw over men without paying for it in the realm of the universe. 

I have no idea why that is and it might sound like a bunch of cosmic garbage. But I've yet to see a woman who's an exception to this. 

The long and the short of it is be nice to the nice men or don't date them at all. But don't cheat and don't be devious. It will be you who pays!

Until next time...

Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa

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Britney Spears Supposedly Texting Ex Adnan Ghalib -- Why Are Women So Afraid of Being Alone?

Britney Spears, Adnan Ghalib
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This is why it's imperative that a woman stay strong and not go back to a bad ex just because she's lonely!

RadarOnline.com reported "Britney Spears may have split from cheating boyfriend David Lucado last week, but she’s finding comfort in a controversial ex. She's texting her former boyfriend, Adnan Ghalib.

“They never really stopped talking,” a source close to the 32-year-old mother of two- who dated the photographer, 42, in 2008 before a judge placed her under conservatorship of her father, Jamie - exclusively tells Radar.

But Jamie, whom Britney has dubbed “crazy” protective, wouldn’t approve of the continued communication, so the former couple has been messaging on the sly, the friend reveals.

“Jamie monitors Britney’s cell phone, but she found a way to secretly text Adnan,” the source explains. In 2009, a Los Angeles judge slapped Ghalib with a restraining order forbidding him from having any contact with the singer for three years."

Who can forget Adnan? He's the same one who threatened to sell a Britney sex tape following their split which is why he had the restraining order. But I suppose that's water under the bridge to Britney, right? We all know how much she hates being alone!

Which brings me to my next question and that is why are women so prone to going back to a bad ex when lonely? Is it that terrifying to do your own thing while you wait for the next great guy to come along?

Granted, Britney isn't the average woman. In fairness to her, she's known for being both unhappy and unstable. But even highly successful women will run back to an ex when they can't deal with the lonely pangs.

Trust me, it is not that scary to go it alone. You won't die unless you choose to. Give yourself a chance to realize that you have an identity outside of men.

Keep in mind I'm not saying it's bad to want a relationship or marriage. But I'm a million times more scared of being with a man who doesn't treat me well than being on my own.

You can be miserable by yourself. You don't need a man to help you with that!

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Madonna Reportedly Slams Ex Brahim Zaibat in Song -- Does She Sound Like a Bitter Victim?

Madonna, Brahim Zaibat
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I present to my readers yet another story about a celebrity woman in a relationship who should've left much sooner than she did.

DailyMailUK.com reported "Madonna has allegedly attacked ex-boyfriend Brahim Zaibat in newly leaked song lyrics. She already slammed pop rival Lady Gaga and ex-husband Guy Ritchie after lyrics from her upcoming album were released last week. But her toyboy former beau, 26, appears to be the latest on the receiving end of some rather harsh words in her recently-penned song, Unapologetic B***h.

According to The Sun, Madonna's new track slams Brahim's sexual prowess as well as mocking his lack of wealth, following their break up in 2013 after three years of dating.
The song contains the lyrics: 'I know you'd like it if I stayed home and cried. But that ain't gonna happen, here's the reason why: When we did it, I'll admit it, wasn't satisfied.'

Another line boasted: 'I'm popping bottles that you can't even afford. I'm throwing parties and you won't get in the door.' The track has a reggae-themed chorus, which Madonna ends with an expletive-filled rant against her former lover, with the line: 'You know you never really know how much your bulls**t cost me, but f**k you.'"

Never mind the fact I can't fathom writing a song to whine about a man. I know many people advocate this because women like Taylor Swift and Madonna are so paid. 

Somehow -- someway -- I'd figure out a way to dig down deeper creatively and not out my bad dating decisions. But that's just me. 

Whenever I read stories like this where women are complaining about men, I wonder, "Why didn't she leave?" This situation is no different. In fact, what did Madonna expect?

If she wasn't satisfied in bed, I don't fault her for being unhappy. If she wants to find a better lover, more power to her. But why did she stay just so she could later complain?

As for the money, again, what did she expect? He's 26! Most men Brahim's age are worried about how to make their student loan payments. Why mess with him so she could only mock him later?

Last but not least, he wouldn't have cost her money had she not spent it in the first place. Again, this was Madonna's choice.

While I'm sure venting probably felt great, all this song does is make Madonna seem like a bitter and helpless victim. If you don't like a man, leave.

Heaven knows they have no problem leaving us!

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Miley Cyrus Says Liam Hemsworth and She Still Love Each Other -- Where Is His Profession?

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When it comes to how much an ex-boyfriend still loves you, it's best to let him do the talking.

UsWeekly.com reported "Still something there? Miley Cyrus and ex-fiance Liam Hemsworth officially called it quits almost exactly a year ago in September 2013, but neither has moved on to a serious relationship since.

At the time the Australian actor, 24, was seeing his star rise in two hit Hunger Games films as the conflicted Gale Hawthorne, and Cyrus, 21, was in the middle of her craziest year with the release of her album Bangerz, her world tour, and new wild child post-VMAs image.

It seemed that the Last Song costars had since moved on from their two year engagement, but in a new interview with Australia's Sunday Night television show, Cyrus hinted that there will always be something between her and the Paranoia star. 'I love Liam; Liam loves me,' she told Sunday Night (via the Daily Mail) of her ex.

When asked about her hit ballad "Wrecking Ball," believed by many to be about Hemsworth, the former Disney star said, 'It's about finding yourself. I had to set myself free.'"

I understand Miley's point. Essentially, she's saying there's no drama between the two of them. Despite their break-up, all is fine.

But the "L" word is very strong and not something I would be admitting to concerning a man who I was no longer dating. Some might think, "We don't have to date for me to express my love for him."

Ok. If that's the case, though, where is Liam's profession of love for Miley? He's not admitting to the tabloids all of the love he still has for her. 

And don't make excuses -- it isn't because men aren't as expressive as women. Plenty of men will go heart on their sleeves for the woman they must have.

When asked about Liam, all Miley has to say is "I'm fine with Liam. Liam's fine with me." Or simply, "no comment."

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Keri Hilson and Serge Ibaka Laugh at Women Pursuing Him -- Should You Think Twice Before Chasing a Man?

Keri Hilson, Serge Ibaka
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Did you ever stop to think that when you're pursuing a man that he's actually laughing at you?

NecoleBitchie.com reported "It’s hard out here in these social media streets when your man is not only finer than frog’s hair but also has tons of money. In fact, while you’re reading this, thirsty women from all over the world are currently flooding the message boxes of taken guys with nudes in hopes of being chosen as a side chick. It’s a struggle that Keri Hilson knows all about, but is way too secure in her relationship to be concerned over.

The singer, who’s currently dating basketball player Serge Ibaka, sent out a warning message to chicks trying to DM their way into her baller’s pants and got them right together:

Why do girls think it’s cute to vie for the attention of a taken man?

Why don’t they feel hoe-ish? When did this become acceptable? Did ALL the rules go out the window w/ social media? Don’t we have more respect for OURSELVES, if not for other women? And relationships?

Meanwhile, that man AND his girlfriend are laughing at your thirsty ass–together. That’s what you need to know. Have a little self-respect."

Keri is a Platinum Girl  which means that I've deemed her a celebrity woman who's above the fray. As such, I tend to agree with a lot of what she says. This situation is no different.

But I'm not writing this to merely reiterate what she said. In my eyes, the more salient point Keri made is that a man will laugh at the women who chase him, irrespective of whether he's with another woman while doing so.

It need not be anything as extreme as sending a nude photo either. Simply letting a man know how very into him you are will make him smirk. You want a man to read your text or see your incoming call with excitement like, "Oh, thank goodness she got back to me!" and not a "Wow, this girl is dying to have me."

Even if the man has no idea who you are, it's still no excuse to pursue him. Chasing a man is desperate no matter if he's a celebrity or the guy in your office.

Someone posted this on Facebook recently and it's so true:

"Men go hard for what they want. So ladies, if he's not going hard for you, you're not what he truly wants."

The only men who exist in your world are those who have to have you! And if you don't end up with a celebrity, so be it.

Until next time...

Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa

P.S. Check out and subscribe to my YouTube channel -- The Platinum Girl Show!


A bold manifesto for the modern woman who wants to capture and keep the man of her dreams. It teaches you to use the power of texting--and not texting--to win his love and make him pursue you. It will convince you that playing hard-to-get is your best bet if you crave an exciting dating life and a committed relationship.

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