Thursday, February 26, 2015

Cameron Diaz Takes Different Approach to Romance with Benji Madden -- Why Silence Suits Her!

Cameron Diaz
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For as much as Cameron Diaz used to talk about her relationships, she's really taken a different approach when it comes to husband, Benji Madden.

According to Popcrush.com, "Benji cemented his devotion to Cameron by permanently inking her name across his chest — you know, in case the wedding wasn’t proof enough of his love for her. Taking to Instagram on Feb. 23, he posted a photo of his new tattoo, which is a scripted version of the name Cameron emblazoned in black in the middle of his chest.

The couple is super low-key, so it’s an interesting and very public way for Benji to let everyone know just how serious he is about his love for Cameron. No word yet from Cameron as to how she feels about the tattoo, but Benji is clearly head-over-heels, as he captioned the photo “'Thinking bout you #LuckyMan.'”

I love the whole "No word yet from Cameron as to how she feels about the tattoo." This is great. She leaves a little bit of mystery.

Now, I'm not saying Cameron was perfect with Benji. She let him move in with her, traveled a lot with him, and they were always seen all over one another. 


What worked in her favor, though, is that she didn't care about whether she married and never really publicly spoke about her romance with Benji. Even though they're married now, Cameron still keeps her thoughts to herself and out of the limelight. 

And to think in 2011, I wrote 3 Reasons Why Cameron Diaz Should Hush! Back then, she was going on and on about how much she loved porn, likes to have sex, and how she must be in constant physical contact with her boyfriends. 

But then she completely turns this around with Benji. Next thing you know, she's married and he's tattooing her name on his chest (something neither A-Rod nor Diddy ever did for her). Cameron was getting nowhere with her approach to men back in the day. All of the sudden (maybe not even knowingly) she stopped talking so much and then she marries.

Mind you, I'm not saying a woman can't be outspoken. George Clooney's wife is a human rights attorney and she landed him. I'll bet she has plenty to say.

It's how much you talk about the man in your life that will make all the difference. This means keep information about your boyfriend off of social media (unless he's the one posting it) and don't talk about him too much to his family or friends.

You can never go wrong with playing it close to the vest!

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Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Did Chrissy Teigen's Outspokenness Land Her in Hot Water with John Legend? Why She Should Follow His Lead!

Chrissy Teigen, John Legend
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I've always liked Chrissy Teigen. She cracks me up and I appreciate that she's not afraid to say what's on her mind. Recently, though, it sounds as if this hasn't always been agreeable with her husband, John Legend.

DailyMailUK.com reported "Chrissy - known for her outspokenness - recently shared a little too much about their sex lives while at the Grammy Awards, and her honest answer left husband John almost speechless. The power couple chatted with Extra when the model picked a question out of a mystery bowl, asking about a public place the two had been intimate.

The former Sports Illustrated cover girl then continued: 'Okay the best, um, probably the Obama thing'. All Of Me crooner John looked none-too-pleased with the answer given by his wife of nearly 17 months as he was queried what she was talking about. He said: 'I don't know. We're not going to discuss that. We're not talking about it, that's the truth.'

Chrissy returned for a bit of damage control as she assured the interviewers: 'Not the White House. 100% not the White House.' John reiterated: 'It was not at the White House. That's correct. He was not elected yet.' The American model tried to get back in the good graces of her crooner husband as she said: 'Sorry, I'm in trouble now.'"

Sometimes Chrissy doesn't have much of a filter. In order to avoid a disagreement with John, she could try letting him take the lead on such personal questions from the press.

If you think about it, Chrissy is much more vocal than John is about their personal lives. It's not as if she couldn't have guessed that talking about their supposed "moment' that didn't happen "in the White House" wouldn't have gone over very well with him.

In fact, it makes you wonder if Chrissy tries to push his conservative buttons a bit. This could come back to bite her. While she's having fun, he might think that she's desperate for attention. 

But my guess is that John and Chrissy have already hashed this one out. John sounded pretty tense so I can only imagine this was discussed in private. All I know is that Chrissy could have coyly answered, "A lady doesn't discuss where she has sex with her husband."

The takeaway here is that you don't have to answer every question posed to you. It's perfectly fine to not answer or at all.

If you have to say something, try "Oh, I'll wait to answer that until he's with me." That way it's made clear that you aren't speaking for the both of you.

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Vanessa

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Tuesday, February 3, 2015

Britney Spears Becoming Serious with Charlie Ebersol -- Why He Sounds Like a Good Egg!

Britney Spears
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I haven't liked many of the men Britney Spears has dated. But Charlie Ebersol sounds like a good egg.

Celebuzz.com reported "Things are getting pretty serious between Britney and Charlie.
The couple, who started dating last November, have been almost inseparable since making their relationship public. In a new interview with People, Ebersol, a television and film producer, opens about his budding romance with Britney. According to him, being with the "Work Bitch" singer helps motivate him to become a better person.

'The best part of this relationship is when we spend time together,' he says. 'I learned from my parents [NBC exec Dick Ebersol and actress Susan Saint James] that no matter how busy you are, home base is the single most important thing. As long as you're centering back to home base and that's the strongest magnet in your life, everything else is okay.'

'We were getting pulled in a thousand different directions, and my favorite thing in the world – besides her – is hot chocolate,' he said, recalling their romantic New Year's Eve. 'She said, "Let's get hot chocolate and hang out." That was a perfect night for me. If that's the rest of my life, then A) I will have emulated my parents, and B) I will be a very happy man.'"

Spears, 33, recently declared her love for Charlie, 32, at one of her shows in Las Vegas. During a performance of "Me Against the Music," the songstress stepped out wearing a bedazzled blazer reading "I (heart) Charlie."

He gushes about his girlfriend, 'Honestly, the way that she treats people makes you look in the mirror and question how much you're really giving to others. Because she is a person who leads with her heart and treats people around her – who she knows and who she doesn't know – better than you or I. It drives me every morning to want to get up and be better … It motivates me."

See! I like him. He's well-spoken, articulate, talks about his parents, and the whole interview was about Britney and how great she is! Plus, he sounds as if he comes from a very stable home environment which Britney needs.

Of course, Britney can't help but move fast with every man she dates. She also goes over the top letting the world know how she feels -- as made evident with her "I (heart) Charlie" blazer.

The fact that Charlie's talking about "home base" as much as he is makes me think they're not going out dating as much as they are spending time at home. This is nice, but the result is that they start acting like a married couple long before they should be. Britney always settles into this pseudo-married routine too prematurely. 

With Britney, though, this might be as good as it gets. She can't seem to help herself from wearing her heart on her sleeve with the men she dates.

This time, at least she's with a man who doesn't sound as if he'll take advantage of her. Let's hope that's the case anyway.

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Jennifer Lawrence Seen with Chris Martin on Another Date -- Does She Realize He's a Waste of Time?

Jennifer Lawrence
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Again, I'm confused as to why she's even bothering with keeping this one going. Nothing has changed since the last time they dated.

DailyMailUK.com reported "To date they have been keeping a low profile. But burgeoning new couple Jennifer Lawrence and Chris Martin made a rare public appearance when they attended Harry Styles' 21st birthday party in LA. According to Just Jared, they were each others' dates at the bash, which saw a plethora of famous faces, including the One Direction star's former love Kendall Jenner, Cara Delevingne and David Beckham.

The joint attendance comes just days after the 37-year-old Coldplay frontman was seen dining out with the 24 year-old Hunger Games star at Kiwami Sushi in the Studio City area of Los Angeles, last month. The photo showed the pair sitting in a low key restaurant chatting across the table as they eat with chopsticks. That picture emerged as Chris' ex, Gwyneth Paltrow, expressed regrets about their break-up - admitting she sometimes wonders if they should have stayed together."

Jennifer and Chris first started seeing one another back in August 2014 and stopped their romance in October. At the time, I posted about how it it was pointless for her to date him because he had no plans of divorcing Gwyneth.

And nothing has changed! Six months has passed and we still haven't heard any reports about how either Gwyneth or Chris have filed for divorce. 
Chris Martin
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In many respects, Jennifer isn't much different than the woman who circles back to an ex once she's been single awhile and no one better has come along. She misses going out for dinners and parties with a man on her arm and decides to revisit a past romance.

Like that woman, though, Jennifer will find herself disappointed. She might tell the world (and herself) that she doesn't want anything serious. But she will soon realize that she never had the upper hand because the man wasn't prepared to offer her a commitment anyway.

Let's say she really doesn't want anything serious which is fine. The problem with this is that the man knows she's accepting second best. He's aware that he's not putting his best foot forward and could potentially low ball her when it comes to how he dates her.

This is why it's a waste of time to bother with an ex unless you see that he's made significant changes for you. If the problems that were there the first time around are still there when you want to revisit the relationship, realize it's a waste of time. 

And you only have you to blame for having your time wasted -- not a man!

Oh, and Gwyneth needs to hush. How can she possibly talk about her regret about splitting from Chris when he's clearly pleased as punch that he's dating other women?

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Vanessa

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Monday, February 2, 2015

Bradley Cooper Looking for Place in London with Suki Waterhouse -- Is He Ready for the Ultimate Commitment?

Bradley Cooper, Suki Waterhouse,
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I started reading this story and thought "Oh great! He's about to propose." But then I read further and such is not the case.

DailyMailUK.com reported "After two years of dating British model Suki Waterhouse, Bradley Cooper is reportedly ready to take the next big step in their relationship. The Hollywood actor, 40, is said to be on the lookout for a London pad for himself and the 23-year-old beauty as he prepares for his 12-week stint in West End show The Elephant Man from May. A source told The Sun: 'It has always been Bradley's dream to perform on the West End, but it means he also gets to live with Suki too.'

A pal said of the American Sniper star, "Bradley is totally smitten. His family all love her too and most importantly she has the stamp of approval from his mother, Gloria.' The couple - who began dating in February 2013 - were first rumoured to be looking for their own love nest last year, but it was thought the duo were house-hunting in the Los Angeles area so Bradley could stay close to his mother following his father's death in 2010.

Suki is equally excited to move in with the hunky actor and has previously admitted she is ready to 'have a home' and settle down. In an interview with Grazia late last year, she said: 'I don't really live anywhere. We're travelling gypsies - it's wherever we're working. But I'm desperate to have a home.'"

As the article states, Bradley and Suki have been dating since February 2013. Naturally, this is why when I read the first line of the article I thought he might be proposing.

But no. He's just interested in playing house. Not actually putting the money on the table.

Sure, Suki's young. But with all of the talk about how she's ready to settle down and have a home, something tells me she'd say 'yes' in a heartbeat if he proposed. 

I understand it's nice that he has his mother's approval. Yet, the way this article reads is that Bradley feels better about Suki because his family likes her. It makes me wonder whether he'd propose if his mom didn't approve.

Suki shouldn't bother moving in with Bradley. But that's a lost cause. She hasn't been able to say 'no' to Bradley about anything. 

This reminds me of the man who buys a woman a promise ring instead of an engagement ring. He's willing to do everything but make the ultimate commitment of marriage.

I hope this isn't the case with Bradley and that he proposes to Suki sooner rather than later.

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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