Wednesday, October 29, 2014

Chris Martin and Jennifer Lawrence Split -- Is Gwyneth Paltrow Saying "I Told You So?"

Jennifer Lawrence, Chris Martin, Gwyneth Paltrow
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Even if she knew she was right, she nevertheless sounds like a know-it-all.

RadarOnline.com reported, "Jennifer Lawrence, 24, and Chris Martin, 37, fizzled out after just four months. News of the Lawrence – Martin split broke Monday, but according to a source, “Gwyneth wasn’t surprised. She never thought the relationship would last because of their age difference. Plus, Jen complained to Chris that she felt like the third wheel in their relationship because of all the time he spent with his kids.

Meanwhile, 'Gwyneth always pressured Chris to spend more time with Apple and Moses,' the source revealed. 'The kids would constantly call Chris when with Jennifer, and whatever they were doing would come to a standstill.' Lawrence and Martin kept their relationship quiet for a long time, even after photographed together backstage at one of Chris' concerts. 

But all hope is not lost. According to the source, 'Even though Gywneth didn’t take Chris’ relationship with Jen seriously, there is a chance they could get back together. Jen is young and impulsive, and Chris still has very strong feelings for her.'”

We all had a feeling Jennifer and Chris wouldn't last. I never understood what she was doing with him in the first place. Aside from the age difference, Chris is still married to Gwyneth and they already have two children. 

The fact that Jennifer felt like a third wheel when with him is unfortunate. No woman likes feeling as if she's being slighted. People might say, "Well, what did she expect?" But even knowing it doesn't make it easier.

I could be way off on this, but I wonder if Gwyneth made sure to encourage those calls when Chris was with Jennifer. As for spending more time with the children, we always heard about how Gwyneth and Chris vacationed together here, there, and everywhere. She can hardly make a case that Chris is an absentee father.

What I suspect is true about this story is Gwyneth really did go around snarkily telling everyone that she knew his relationship with Jennifer wouldn't last. But what Gwyneth has confused is that it doesn't sound like Chris is losing interest in Jennifer as much as Jennifer's losing patience with his family situation. 

So, maybe Gwyneth should have a seat on her "I told you" so's. The verdict is still out on Chris and Jennifer. Gwyneth will eat humble pie if it turns out Chris is really into Jennifer and wants her back.

We'll see what happens with this one!

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Taylor Swift Goes on David Letterman -- Did She Inadvertently Call Harry Styles a Lousy Ex?

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While it isn't clear whether she's talking about a specific ex, she once again tipped her hand that she has lousy taste in men.

HollywoodLife.com reported, "Taylor Swift, 24, stopped by ‘The Late Show With David Letterman’ to promote her new album, but ended up talking about how it’s been a while since she dated a ‘lousy’ guy. Taylor is done with dating — at least for the time being. Instead, the “Out of the Woods” singer, whose new album, 1989, has sold 600,000 copies in less than 24 hours, said she’s focusing on herself and her amazing female friendships.

David Letterman, 67, agreed with Taylor and said guys are jerks. Clearly, Taylor can attest to that! Taylor told David that she hasn’t “had any lousy boyfriends in the last year and a half.” Did she call her last boyfriend, Harry Styles, lousy? She doesn’t say those exact words, but by saying she hasn’t had a “lousy” boyfriend in the last year and a half indicates that the guy she was dating before then was “lousy.”

Harry and Taylor broke up in early 2013, following a short courtship. At least Taylor’s ex-boyfriends inspired her to write many hit songs, including “Out of the Woods,” which is more than likely about the One Direction singer. Instead of men, Taylor is focusing on female friendships, especially with new bestie, Lena Dunham! Taylor called her friendship with Lena, 28, “empowering.”

The big question here, apparently, is whether Taylor called Harry a lousy ex? 

As much of a nail biter that this is (I know, the anticipation is killing me, too), does it matter? Even if she wasn't talking about Harry, Taylor's still letting on that she can't pick 'em and that the men she dates treat her badly.

This is what gets me about all of her work. It's always same ole', same ole,' which makes her seem so one-dimensional. She incessantly talks about her issues with men.

The crazy thing is that I know Taylor is incredibly business savvy. Yet, this never comes across in any of her interviews.

All we hear out of Taylor is boys are mean and they screw her over. People say she's young, but there are so many young adult women who present themselves as infinitely more emotionally stable than she is.

And how is Lena Dunham empowering? Lena has been seeing Jack Antonofff for well over two years and he hasn't proposed. Most recently, he admitted that he isn't ready for marriage and Lena is still sticking around.

Just once I'd love it if Taylor gave it a rest when it comes to discussing men. But with 600,000 copies sold in less than 24 hours, I can only assume that won't happen.

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Vanessa

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Sunday, October 26, 2014

Rita Ora Talks Falling in Love Again -- Why Some People Need a Reminder These Things Take Time!

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No matter how bad the pain is from that last break-up, keep the faith you'll love again. Some things just take time.

DailyMailUK.com reported, "Rita Ora has revealed that all she really wants is to be in love. The Black Widow singer - who is dating rapper Ricky Hilfiger - has admitted that she is ready to love again after splitting from DJ Calvin Harris in June.

Opening up about her personal life in Teen Vogue's November issue, Rita said: 'Without complaining, without being moany, because this is what I have wanted to do all my life, I think it's that people may forget I'm just a 23-year-old girl who wants to be in love. Even though I live and breathe my job, I still want someone to want me. That's how every girl feels. It's like, "Will I ever love someone as much as I loved that person?" You will. You won't forget how you felt, but you will love someone else again."

Normally, I come down on celebrity women for discussing their personal lives in interviews. However, I don't think that this necessarily applies to Rita here because I'm being mindful of her audience.

An interview with Teen Vogue is different than one with Rolling Stone. The demographic is young women probably aged 15-21. As such, Rita might have more appeal of she talks about love and what it's like to recover from heartache.

While I surmise Rita is talking about Calvin in her interview (because I'd bet the farm she isn't talking about Rob Kardashian), she's still keeping an upbeat attitude about loving someone again just as much as she loved an ex. And that's what counts!

See, it's not the worst thing to endure a broken heart (so long as you keep it in perspective -- after all, he is just a man!). What's important is that you don't become embittered and take it out on the next man. 

There might not seem like there is light at the end of the tunnel of heartache. But ask any woman in a happy relationship or marriage and she'll tell you how thankful she is that an ex dumped her because she was able to move on to a better man.

Never forget that losing Mr. Wrong only makes room for Mr. Right. Even if you think Mr. Right is the one who just dumped you, realize that he wasn't. Mr. Right's don't leave. 

Have faith and realize great things in life can take time!

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Tyga Talks Wanting Blac Chyna to Focus on Business -- Should a Man Ever Have to Say This?

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If a man tells you that you need to get to work, suffice to say you might have too much time on your hands.

NecoleBitchie.com reported,"In a recent interview with Vibe magazine Tyga dished on his recent split with Blac Chyna while revealing he wanted her to focus more on her businesses, than being a Hip Hop wife who sat around the house while he’s on tour.

'I think [Black Chyna is] improving a lot. She’s becoming more focused on her business. Because it’s hard, when you’re sitting there…I’m on tour, you’re thinking about if I’m with girls or not when the main thing is like, “Yo, I’m on tour making money, while you’re living in this big ass house, taking care of our beautiful son." That’s the goal. 

A lot of women don’t realize this. They watch Love & Hip Hop. It takes them off the focus of what they think happiness is. As you get older the main goal is to have a family. That’s what it’s all about because you can be successful, have a lot of money, or whatever you do in life, but if you don’t have nobody to share it with, or family, it ain’t gonna matter.'"

The reason this article caught my attention is because all too often women aren't busy enough in their relationships with men. They spend too much time focused on the man instead of on themselves. This is especially true when a man isn't a woman's husband.

Truthfully, if a man ever had to tell me to "get busy," I'd be mortified. The It Girl is so busy that the man who she's dating is trying to schedule his next date with her. If anything, he's telling her that she should work less and relax more (mostly so she has more time for him). He never even has to remind her to stay busy.

Now, I can't tell whether Tyga's telling the truth about Blac Chyna. What he is saying sounds great, but maybe she had a right to worry about whether he was with other women. A man waxing poetic about the virtues of how hard he works might sound good in an interview. Wheter it's the reality is another story.

As it pertains to the everyday woman, though, stay busy. No timeouts for a man unless he's your husband!

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Thursday, October 23, 2014

Christina McLarty Chases David Arquette Following Fight -- Should She Have Even Bothered?

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I can't figure out why this story bugged me so much. But it did.

DailyMailUK.com reported " David Arquette appeared to call off his engagement to Christina McLarty in the middle of a busy street on Friday night. In exclusive footage of the altercation for MailOnline, the Scream actor exchanged strong words with his girlfriend of three years as she chased him down Melrose Avenue in Los Angeles following an evening date. David said he was 'done, just like the last guy' as he stormed ahead of her looking disheveled in an unbuttoned shirt and becoming unresponsive to her pleas. Christina cried and begged as she ran down the Santa Monica Boulevard in heels and an evening dress that she'd been seen arriving at the restaurant in earlier that evening.

Trying to put distance between them, David made strides in front of her, shouting: 'That's it, I can't take it any more.' The 42-year-old welcomed his first son Charlie West with Christina in April and later proposed to the mother of his child in July. But, appearing to break off their three-month engagement on Friday night, David continued: 'I'm done, I'm sorry. Just like the last guy. I'm just like him.' The brunette beauty, a 33-year-old Entertainment Tonight reporter, can later be heard wailing, 'Stop David, David, David stop. Come here, please!"

How Christina lasted this long with David is beyond me. Between all of his boozing and partying with strippers, the fact that she agree to marry him much less having a child with him is incomprehensible.

What bothered me about this story is how Christina went chasing after David, imploring him to stop. Instead of discussing their problems like an adult, he continued to yell about just how much he'd had it with her. Essentially, he dumped her and let the world know.

Now, it's possible that he was drunk and Christina was chasing him because she was worried. After all, what if he were hit by a car? Should she not try to keep him safe?

The answer is "no." It might seem harsh to say this, but every 12-step program out there will teach a person that it isn't their problem to protect an addict. David makes his choices and must deal with the consequences.

If he was sober, all the more reason for Christina to not have even bothered with his nonsense. David sounds like more of a headache than anything. 

Hopefully Christina doesn't marry him. He just doesn't seem steady.

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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