Thursday, December 18, 2014

Jennifer Lopez Talks Being a Love Addict -- Is She Being Dramatic?

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Wow! This is a big admission out of Jennifer Lopez who usually is so willing to chalk up her romantic mishaps as "that's what people in love do...at the end of the day."

PopSugar.com reported "Jennifer Lopez, 45, covers the January issue of Self Magazine. In the interview, she opens up about love, life, and why it's "no big deal" for women to date younger men, as she's one of several famous women who have hit it off with younger guys. 

On her high-profile relationships: 'When you have that much pain, you have to anesthetize yourself in some ways. People do different things. Some go out and party and sleep around, but that's just not my way. I found the comfort in someone else. That's called being a love addict. When I face myself, I go, You have a fear of really being on your own. So you know what? That's what we're gonna do right now. But it took me years to get there. So first it was learning to love myself. And then it was about facing my fears.'"

I definitely agree that Jennifer comes across at times as a love addict. Sure, there are plenty of men who she dates and it's just that -- a date. 

It's when she does fall that we all watch her fall so hard and very fast for the men in her life. One minute she's single, the next she's spending every minute with her new guy. I can't necessarily say that she's being dramatic on this one.

But it isn't the dates that she goes on that make her the love addict. Truly, it's the hot and heavy relationships that move at lightning speed.

In my blog, I frequently tell the newly single woman to start dating as soon as possible after a break-up. No sense in being miserable if there are eligible men who want to date.

Some could argue that this advice fosters love addicts. In my mind, though, it keeps women from pining over men who don't want them or failed relationships in general.

Remember, the love addict is someone who jumps from one relationship to the next -- heart, body, mind, all of it! Going out on dates that you end first and don't result in spilling your life story and sleeping with a man does not make you a love addict.

Great for JLo that she's coming to terms with who she is, but don't mistake this for you if you're a happily dating single woman!

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Monday, December 15, 2014

Teresa Giudice Painted as Villain While Husband Joe Giudice Is the Victim -- Is This Fair?

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I'm not saying she didn't pressure her husband, but he's also a grown man who didn't need to succumb to said pressure.

RadarOnline.com reported, "As Teresa and Joe Giudice’s marriage crumbles amid reports of his cheating and alcohol abuse, there’s a new twist no one saw coming: He’s the one that’s getting ready to file for divorce!

According to an insider, Joe has finally had enough of his wife’s diva demands. Not only has he already hired an attorney, the source claimed, he’s planning to file for divorce from the mother of four — once she begins her prison sentence in January.

But even after a friend told Teresa about Joe’s plans, 'She simply shrugged it off!' the source said. 'She is absolutely living in denial about going to prison, so Teresa doesn’t think Joe would ever leave her, or file for divorce.'

'Joe always felt pressure from Teresa to have the biggest house, best clothes, and luxurious vacations,' the source continued. “While Joe takes responsibility for his role in the bankruptcy fraud case, it was all done under the pressure he felt from Teresa.'

Rumors of Joe cheating on Teresa never seemed to bother the convicted felon. In 2012, he was at TGI Fridays drinking with another woman. He was also busted having another rendezvous in 2013 with a mystery woman at Legends Diner only 30 miles away from their New Jersey mansion! Teresa even stood by Joe when reports broke that he cheated on her with their nanny, Nicole Cemelli."

So let me get something straight. Joe was so weak and helpless that he couldn't think for himself and ended up in a bankruptcy fraud case. Really?

Was he so helpless because of Teresa that he then drank with other women and supposedly cheated on her with their nanny? Or did he do that because of Teresa's pressure, too?

Sure, they're both at fault. Who can argue that? But this "source" who's painting Teresa as the villain while Joe is the hapless victim is pretty ridiculous.

What also gets me is that Teresa stood by Joe through thick and thin. But as soon as she goes to jail, he reportedly intends to slap her with divorce papers.

This is why when a man treats you poorly it's crucial to move on. Don't make excuses and naively think it'll change.

The cold reality is that he will leave you anyway so better to not waste your time!

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Vanessa

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Sunday, December 14, 2014

Kristen Stewart Moving to Downtown L.A., Avoids Robert Pattinson and FKA Twigs -- Is She Running Away?

Kristen Stewart, Robert Pattinson, FKA Twigs
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I can't say that I blame her for wanting to find a new place. Sometimes it's not running away when really a change of scenery is what's in order.

HollywoodLife.com reported, "Now that Robert Pattinson has bought a new house close to where Kristen Stewart lives, the actress is making sure she doesn’t get mixed up in any humiliating situations now that her ex Rob and FKA twigs have moved to the Hollywood Hills. She is eager to move into her downtown loft in L.A. before the new year. She does not want a weird run-in with Rob and Tahliah and doesn’t need to see them all over each other. 

The Still Alice actress relies on friends to help her steer clear of any awkward Rob & FKA twigs encounters. Kristen is well aware that Rob’s new house is near her hood. She told friends that she doesn’t want to hear if they see them together at the places she used to go with Rob. 'She just wants to focus on her new digs downtown and paint,' a source explains."

Whether you're "Team Kristen" or "Team Rob," Kristen need not torture herself if seeing Rob and Tahliah makes her uncomfortable. Some might think that it serves her right because she cheated on Rob.

Kristen Stewart, Robert Pattinson, FKA Twigs
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In my mind, though, Kristen shouldn't have to punish herself like this as a form of penance. She made a mistake and everyone has moved on.

I think it's great that she's taking control of the situation and moving downtown. This is advice I will frequently give to a client who is having a hard time running into her ex.

If she was dating a co-worker, I say to find a new job if possible. If it's a small town, it's ok to move. If she met him at the gym, it's fine to head off to a new one. Whatever she needs to do to feel better -- do it!

This might be considered controversial advice. Why should she sacrifice her job because of a man? Why should she move out of her home, find a new gym, or anything in her life have to change because of a man? 

My answer to this is because it's a negative distraction in a woman's life. As they say, out of sight, out of mind. I'd prefer that a woman be happily dating than hanging her head because running into an ex-boyfriend is making her sad. 

Sure, there's an element of "buck up" that's important. But hey, some relationships are absolutely devastating to the psyche. If you've never been there, great! Yet, other women can't deal with seeing an ex at which point getting out of dodge is best. 

The last point I want to make on this is whether it's considered running away. I suppose that this is always a matter of perception. As I said in the beginning, though, it might not be running away as much as it is a change in scenery.

Who knows? That change of scenery could include your future husband!

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Thursday, December 11, 2014

Freida Pinto and Dev Patel Split -- Did She Miss a Big Red Flag?

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There isn't any upside to not being surprised about this one. But I saw it coming.

DailyMailUK.com reported, "They met and fell in love on the set of 2008's hit movie, Slumdog Millionaire. But it has now been reported that Freida Pinto, 30, and Dev Patel, 24, have called time on their relationship. According to Us Weekly, the actors split some time ago after around six years together as a loved-up couple.

A source said: 'Dev and Freida have broken up. They have been done for a while.'
Another insider added that Freida is enjoying herself since the break-up, and hinted that she's happily going on other dates. 'Freida is single and happy,' the second source said of the newly-single actress. They added: 'Friends are setting her up.'

Dev, who is six years younger than Freida, rose to international fame after appearing in Danny Boyle's Oscar-winning movie. His romance with Freida helped raise his profile over the years, but the two hadn't been seen together for quite some time. The British actor was noticeably absent at her 30th birthday celebrations in October. In an interview for the June issue of Harper's Bazaar Arabia, Frieda was forthcoming about many things, but remained coy about Dev, simply saying she became adept at protecting herself in the public eye."

I'll be upfront and admit that I'm speculating on this one. But if their relationship ended after six years, my guess is that it's because Dev didn't want to marry. 

But here's where Freida could have saved herself a lot of time. Last year, I wrote about how Dev said he didn't celebrate Valentine's Day because "Every day should be a celebration of love." 

Sure, Dev, every day should be a celebration of love. Yet, you couldn't make a nice evening for your girlfriend of six years? 

This was Freida's cue to leave. A man who lets you know he's not even going to do the little things for you is one on which you shouldn't waste time. Don't make excuses for him.

If you don't break it off, you will end up even more disappointed because you'll see he isn't that serious about you. What will make it worse is that you'll regret not doing it sooner because you didn't pay attention to the deal breakers.

Freida missed the red flags. But it's great that it's over right before her 30th birthday and even better she's already out dating. 

Hopefully, she'll find a nice man who wants marriage...and celebrates Valentine's Day!

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Vanessa

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Thursday, December 4, 2014

Iggy Azalea Removes Tattoo of Ex for Nick Young -- Is an Engagement on the Horizon?

Iggy Azalea, Nick Young
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I always say that a woman shouldn't make permanent decisions based on non-permanent factors -- especially when it comes to men. But it sounds like something permanent is on very much on the horizon!

HollywoodLife.com reported, "Iggy Azalea mysteriously removed her tattoo of her ex’s name just as things are becoming more and more serious with boyfriend Nick Young. Iggy's ex A$AP Rocky is out of her life, and her hand, for good! The “Fancy” singer, 24, removed the tattoo of her ex’s name on Dec. 3 because she is trying to “make her future amazing.” 

The idea was all Iggy’s! It seems the Australian rapper wants to respect Nick so much, that it drove her to the tattoo parlor to get her ex’s name removed. “[Iggy] is now in a place professionally and romantically where everything is going perfect, and she is making changes to her past that will make her future that much more amazing and feel right,” a source tells HollywoodLife.com.

“Nick actually wasn’t bothered by the tattoo. He is very laid back and in love with Iggy. She has wanted to change for Nick out of respect for him and what they have achieved as a couple.” Iggy isn’t the only one completely serious about the relationship, as Nick has his own plans to seal the deal with Iggy around Christmastime!

“Nick told friends that during Christmastime he wants to get a ring for Iggy and be engaged to her by the end of the year,” a source told HollywoodLife.com. “He has been looking for rings and may have already picked the right one.”

When I started reading this article, I had to wonder whether Iggy's decision to remove a tattoo out of "respect" for Nick was over the top. Had she wanted to remove it because she hated it would have made it another story. 

But keeping it wouldn't have necessarily disrespected Nick given she already had the tattoo when they met. This is probably why the tattoo didn't even bother Nick in the first place.

The fact that Nick is talking about buying an engagement ring for Iggy and proposing around Christmas is big news! If Iggy decided to remove the tattoo for the sake of a man who is talking marriage -- well, that's another story. 

Now there's the possibility of something real happening. In other words, Iggy made a permanent decision to remove the tattoo based on what will more than likely be a permanent factor. 

Once a man starts talking wedding rings and marriage (with a timeline), then that means you, too, can start making more permanent decisions. Until then, always remember -- no permanent decisions based on non-permanent factors!

Until next time...

Shine like Platinum!
Vanessa

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