Monday, March 16, 2015

Lisa Rinna Puts Husband Harry Hamlin First -- Why Her Diplomatic Approach in Marriage Pays Off!

Lisa Rinna, Harry Hamlin
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I loved this story because it's about a wife who puts her husband first!

FoxNews.com reported "Lisa Rinna revealed her husband almost divorced her when she agreed to join the cast of the Real Houseswives of Beverly Hills. 'I went to Harry and I said I'm thinking about [doing 'RHOBH'] and he looked at me and said, 'If you do this show, I'll divorce you,' Rinna said on Live! With Kelly and Michael

Rinna says, 'I walked away and was done with it. He comes to me a day later and said, "I've thought about this and I think it'll be a good idea if you did it." He went through it. And I was like 'Okay.' And there you are!'"  The pair, who have been married for 18 years, have gone through bumps in their relationship including Hamlin struggling with this sobriety.

This is a great lesson for a couple of reasons. First, Lisa went to Harry and clearly made joining RHOBH a decision between the two of them. She did not take it upon herself to unilaterally say, "I decided we're doing a reality show...just FYI."

Second, when Harry said he'd divorce her, Lisa didn't flip out and start an argument. She didn't remind him that she stood by him through his sobriety struggles and how it's her turn for something.

She let it go. And then she got her way. This won't always work. But often times you have a better chance of winning your battles if you don't throw a fit.

Now, it's possible Lisa just said this on tv, but the reality was much different. Sure, they could have fought tooth and nail over this.

Something tells me this isn't the case, though. You don't stay married as long as Lisa has if you don't learn diplomacy with your husband.

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Sunday, March 15, 2015

Taylor Swift Happy Harry Styles Split from Nadine Leopold -- Should She Have Bothered Texting Him?

Taylor Swift, Nadine Leopold, Harry Styles
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Just because your ex is newly single doesn't mean you should be too excited and contact him -- especially if he's the one who ended it!

HollywoodLife.com reported, "Now that Harry Styles, 21, and Nadine Leopold are no longer an item, Taylor Swift, 25, is hoping to rekindle her romance with the One Direction hottie. She even texted him to reconnect, just seeing how he was doing. But sadly for her, he was not very responsive. 

Taylor may have been trying to play it cool with a casual message, but according to our insider, 'Their mutual friends say she is definitely still hung up on him. She thinks they have potential despite their past breakup. But Harry isn’t interested. He is actually kicking himself over losing Nadine.'

Yeah. Taylor's "just seeing how he was doing" text didn't fool me either. Were I Harry, I'd be smirking at her desperation. Taylor is like a shark that smells blood in the water.

But when you learn an ex is single, it doesn't mean you contact him. In fact, his split hasn't changed your situation in the slightest. If he isn't texting you "hi" and "just seeing how you are doing," trust that he isn't interested.

Two other reasons not to contact the ex include avoiding rejection and tipping your hand. See, Taylor put herself out there for him to ignore her. Further, she learned that Harry still doesn't want her even when he's single and down on his luck.

Second, Taylor tipped her hand that she's not seeing any other man who's sweeping her off her feet. With just a little text, she let Harry know she isn't the It Girl

Either way, Taylor shouldn't have been excited about Harry and Nadine's split given he allegedly cheated on her. Based on that alone, Harry wasn't into Taylor. If he didn't have to have her before, he doesn't have to have her now.

All in all, an ex is in the past unless and until they contact you. Even then, think long and hard about taking a step back. Life is about moving forward!

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Thursday, February 26, 2015

Cameron Diaz Takes Different Approach to Romance with Benji Madden -- Why Silence Suits Her!

Cameron Diaz
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For as much as Cameron Diaz used to talk about her relationships, she's really taken a different approach when it comes to husband, Benji Madden.

According to Popcrush.com, "Benji cemented his devotion to Cameron by permanently inking her name across his chest — you know, in case the wedding wasn’t proof enough of his love for her. Taking to Instagram on Feb. 23, he posted a photo of his new tattoo, which is a scripted version of the name Cameron emblazoned in black in the middle of his chest.

The couple is super low-key, so it’s an interesting and very public way for Benji to let everyone know just how serious he is about his love for Cameron. No word yet from Cameron as to how she feels about the tattoo, but Benji is clearly head-over-heels, as he captioned the photo “'Thinking bout you #LuckyMan.'”

I love the whole "No word yet from Cameron as to how she feels about the tattoo." This is great. She leaves a little bit of mystery.

Now, I'm not saying Cameron was perfect with Benji. She let him move in with her, traveled a lot with him, and they were always seen all over one another. 


What worked in her favor, though, is that she didn't care about whether she married and never really publicly spoke about her romance with Benji. Even though they're married now, Cameron still keeps her thoughts to herself and out of the limelight. 

And to think in 2011, I wrote 3 Reasons Why Cameron Diaz Should Hush! Back then, she was going on and on about how much she loved porn, likes to have sex, and how she must be in constant physical contact with her boyfriends. 

But then she completely turns this around with Benji. Next thing you know, she's married and he's tattooing her name on his chest (something neither A-Rod nor Diddy ever did for her). Cameron was getting nowhere with her approach to men back in the day. All of the sudden (maybe not even knowingly) she stopped talking so much and then she marries.

Mind you, I'm not saying a woman can't be outspoken. George Clooney's wife is a human rights attorney and she landed him. I'll bet she has plenty to say.

It's how much you talk about the man in your life that will make all the difference. This means keep information about your boyfriend off of social media (unless he's the one posting it) and don't talk about him too much to his family or friends.

You can never go wrong with playing it close to the vest!

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Vanessa

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Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Did Chrissy Teigen's Outspokenness Land Her in Hot Water with John Legend? Why She Should Follow His Lead!

Chrissy Teigen, John Legend
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I've always liked Chrissy Teigen. She cracks me up and I appreciate that she's not afraid to say what's on her mind. Recently, though, it sounds as if this hasn't always been agreeable with her husband, John Legend.

DailyMailUK.com reported "Chrissy - known for her outspokenness - recently shared a little too much about their sex lives while at the Grammy Awards, and her honest answer left husband John almost speechless. The power couple chatted with Extra when the model picked a question out of a mystery bowl, asking about a public place the two had been intimate.

The former Sports Illustrated cover girl then continued: 'Okay the best, um, probably the Obama thing'. All Of Me crooner John looked none-too-pleased with the answer given by his wife of nearly 17 months as he was queried what she was talking about. He said: 'I don't know. We're not going to discuss that. We're not talking about it, that's the truth.'

Chrissy returned for a bit of damage control as she assured the interviewers: 'Not the White House. 100% not the White House.' John reiterated: 'It was not at the White House. That's correct. He was not elected yet.' The American model tried to get back in the good graces of her crooner husband as she said: 'Sorry, I'm in trouble now.'"

Sometimes Chrissy doesn't have much of a filter. In order to avoid a disagreement with John, she could try letting him take the lead on such personal questions from the press.

If you think about it, Chrissy is much more vocal than John is about their personal lives. It's not as if she couldn't have guessed that talking about their supposed "moment' that didn't happen "in the White House" wouldn't have gone over very well with him.

In fact, it makes you wonder if Chrissy tries to push his conservative buttons a bit. This could come back to bite her. While she's having fun, he might think that she's desperate for attention. 

But my guess is that John and Chrissy have already hashed this one out. John sounded pretty tense so I can only imagine this was discussed in private. All I know is that Chrissy could have coyly answered, "A lady doesn't discuss where she has sex with her husband."

The takeaway here is that you don't have to answer every question posed to you. It's perfectly fine to not answer or at all.

If you have to say something, try "Oh, I'll wait to answer that until he's with me." That way it's made clear that you aren't speaking for the both of you.

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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Tuesday, February 3, 2015

Britney Spears Becoming Serious with Charlie Ebersol -- Why He Sounds Like a Good Egg!

Britney Spears
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I haven't liked many of the men Britney Spears has dated. But Charlie Ebersol sounds like a good egg.

Celebuzz.com reported "Things are getting pretty serious between Britney and Charlie.
The couple, who started dating last November, have been almost inseparable since making their relationship public. In a new interview with People, Ebersol, a television and film producer, opens about his budding romance with Britney. According to him, being with the "Work Bitch" singer helps motivate him to become a better person.

'The best part of this relationship is when we spend time together,' he says. 'I learned from my parents [NBC exec Dick Ebersol and actress Susan Saint James] that no matter how busy you are, home base is the single most important thing. As long as you're centering back to home base and that's the strongest magnet in your life, everything else is okay.'

'We were getting pulled in a thousand different directions, and my favorite thing in the world – besides her – is hot chocolate,' he said, recalling their romantic New Year's Eve. 'She said, "Let's get hot chocolate and hang out." That was a perfect night for me. If that's the rest of my life, then A) I will have emulated my parents, and B) I will be a very happy man.'"

Spears, 33, recently declared her love for Charlie, 32, at one of her shows in Las Vegas. During a performance of "Me Against the Music," the songstress stepped out wearing a bedazzled blazer reading "I (heart) Charlie."

He gushes about his girlfriend, 'Honestly, the way that she treats people makes you look in the mirror and question how much you're really giving to others. Because she is a person who leads with her heart and treats people around her – who she knows and who she doesn't know – better than you or I. It drives me every morning to want to get up and be better … It motivates me."

See! I like him. He's well-spoken, articulate, talks about his parents, and the whole interview was about Britney and how great she is! Plus, he sounds as if he comes from a very stable home environment which Britney needs.

Of course, Britney can't help but move fast with every man she dates. She also goes over the top letting the world know how she feels -- as made evident with her "I (heart) Charlie" blazer.

The fact that Charlie's talking about "home base" as much as he is makes me think they're not going out dating as much as they are spending time at home. This is nice, but the result is that they start acting like a married couple long before they should be. Britney always settles into this pseudo-married routine too prematurely. 

With Britney, though, this might be as good as it gets. She can't seem to help herself from wearing her heart on her sleeve with the men she dates.

This time, at least she's with a man who doesn't sound as if he'll take advantage of her. Let's hope that's the case anyway.

Until next time...

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Vanessa

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